I know this is hard, but persist. What is the matter mate? Why are you presenting such an aggressive persona here.
Some people, like you, need to pretend shit to themselves for whatever reason. So when I come and make a pretty frank statement about married life that's pretty much the accepted norm across this segment of society, people like you get all offended. First you fly off the handle and say it's not true. Then I point out some contradictions in what you have posted. Then you get all mad and shit because deep down you realise you have been lying to yourself so you start calling me names.
We all lie to ourselves because it's easier to exist in a perception that makes us feel all warm and fuzzy. I get it why people hate it when someone tears down the wall.
Do you really think any of us don't lie to ourselves because it makes things easier to deal with? We all do it. I like to pick the ones I think are really out there and like to challenge how people think about things. Is there an element of anger? Sure, and I'm comfortable with that. I question and analyse what I think and why I think it. I do find it humorus people on here claim I'm close minded and I can see why it appears that way, but I think the close minded ones are the ones who don't challenge the norms of society.
I have to ask you: why do you get so upset about having your views challenged on an anonymous forum? It's not like you're being put on the spot in front of your wife, family, friends, work colleagues etc.
You claimed you were more in love with your wife than ever and I showed you that this was not the case. Why does that piss you off? Is it really that hard to accept that the whole marriage and co-habitation evolves?
You know you're just jilted and getting back at me for tearing down your wall, right?
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