Computers & Internet Tinder Part Deux

[akkaps]

Flew into Fiji yesterday. A better country to find matches if you’re Indian.
Had to change my home location on hinge to Fiji though.
And some of the Indian apps have a lot more to profiles coming up

 

[Caesar]

The app I'm developing will fix all that. No algorithms, no paywalls. All free and feature rich. I just need time.

how are you going to pay for those those sweet AWS credits when it takes off

 

[Jack Richards]

I don't know how some of you guys do it? I've been called good looking all my life. I'm no Brad Pitt but good looking enough to do modelling and ads in my twenties, and I probably look better now at 33. But I get no matches or likes on any of these apps. Have had the girl mates in my life confirm that my profile is good.

I'm not picky either, I'm not just swiping on girls out of my league. Has online dating completely killed the dating market? It's competely ****ed with my self esteem. I'm talking 0 likes and matches, not even a few.

Its the world we live in. Women have very high standards

 

[Jack Richards]

I wouldn't complain. I'd kill for even the ugliest match right now. ******* sucks.

You say that now... mine was burnt into my brain...

 

[RubyLovesTheDees]

how are you going to pay for those those sweet AWS credits when it takes off

Azure

My own pocket

 

[Caesar]

Azure

My own pocket

“I can afford Azure credits” is a huge flex, you should put that in your profile

 

[ash_1050]

Its the world we live in. Women have very high standards

As they should.

 

[the_interloper]

As they should.

No they shouldn't, how else would blokes like me be able to pull birds?

 

[Pistol Night]

No they shouldn't, how else would blokes like me be able to pull birds?

Send them a highlights package of your best Bigfooty posts? Instant panty droppers.

 

[the_interloper]

Send them a highlights package of your best Bigfooty posts? Instant panty droppers.

Plus I worked at a bottle o, that's cool as ****.

 

[Pistol Night]

Plus I worked at a bottle o, that's cool as *.

Chicks dig free UDLs

 

[the_interloper]

Chicks dig free UDLs

I did notice that Friday nights would be just the local regulars, Sat night were the carfuls of chicks going out. I worked with a chick a lot of Saturdays (no pics) and she'd let me serve all the hot ones ha ha, worked well.

 

[Andre]

Its the world we live in. Women have very high standards

Simple supply and demand will cause this. When you've got many more buyers (men) than sellers (women) in any market it creates artificial demand and higher prices. In online Apps this equates to, where in the 'real world' you'd expect guys that are a 7 to get a girl 6-8 usually (unless rich or famous) and vice versa. Since guys are much more on these apps you've instead got girls that are a 7 getting guys that are a 9 or 10 chasing them, why would they look at a 'mere 7'? Guys that are a 7 then are going for 4 - 6's, along with swiping right on every girl that's a 7 or 8 in hope. Short of some massive change where many guys hop off these apps or a bunch of girls hop on, so the numbers get close to even it's not going to change. Makes me glad I'm not competing in this game.

 

[phantom13]

Last few pages in this thread have been peak Tinder BF gear.

 

[mr bagcroft]

Simple supply and demand will cause this. When you've got many more buyers (men) than sellers (women) in any market it creates artificial demand and higher prices. In online Apps this equates to, where in the 'real world' you'd expect guys that are a 7 to get a girl 6-8 usually (unless rich or famous) and vice versa. Since guys are much more on these apps you've instead got girls that are a 7 getting guys that are a 9 or 10 chasing them, why would they look at a 'mere 7'? Guys that are a 7 then are going for 4 - 6's, along with swiping right on every girl that's a 7 or 8 in hope. Short of some massive change where many guys hop off these apps or a bunch of girls hop on, so the numbers get close to even it's not going to change. Makes me glad I'm not competing in this game.

A wise man once said, dont go chasing headaches.
Things guys will do for a bit of poon dolled out here and there.
Unbelievable.

 

[JyeDye]

I'm a 10/10 and drown in matches. Sucks to be you nerds.

 

[Ligma]

I'm a 10/10 and drown in matches. Sucks to be you nerds.

I only swipe on 10s

 

[Feraligatr]

Its the world we live in. Women have very high standards

I have a feeling my standards were too low.

Don't stink, be able to see your own genitals and at least have a job.

I think I might have to raise the bar a little bit lol.

 

[Feraligatr]

Simple supply and demand will cause this. When you've got many more buyers (men) than sellers (women) in any market it creates artificial demand and higher prices. In online Apps this equates to, where in the 'real world' you'd expect guys that are a 7 to get a girl 6-8 usually (unless rich or famous) and vice versa. Since guys are much more on these apps you've instead got girls that are a 7 getting guys that are a 9 or 10 chasing them, why would they look at a 'mere 7'? Guys that are a 7 then are going for 4 - 6's, along with swiping right on every girl that's a 7 or 8 in hope. Short of some massive change where many guys hop off these apps or a bunch of girls hop on, so the numbers get close to even it's not going to change. Makes me glad I'm not competing in this game.

Tl;Dr dick is in abundance and low value.

 

[Andre]

Tl;Dr dick is in abundance and low value.

Yep. It is as it is. If you don’t want to be an incel and don’t like it, then accept you need to have something to stand out from the crowd. Either get in shape or get wealthier. Since we can’t do much about getting better looking, these are the only two real game changers. Yeah once you’ve met someone personality and humour can come into effect, but they are hard to convey to people online, especially in a short blurb to make someone intrigued and get a foot in the door.

 

[Feraligatr]

Yep. It is as it is. If you don’t want to be an incel and don’t like it, then accept you need to have something to stand out from the crowd. Either get in shape or get wealthier. Since we can’t do much about getting better looking, these are the only two real game changers. Yeah once you’ve met someone personality and humour can come into effect, but they are hard to convey to people online, especially in a short blurb to make someone intrigued and get a foot in the door.

This is why I don't online date anymore.

All of the guys I've had a connection with I've met in real life and I wouldn't say they were the best looking roosters in the pack but they had confidence.

I like my guys more solid/chunky. I guess dad bod is my thing.(not obese), so I'm already not looking for the top 10 percent.

Confidence and a good personality is a massive thing for me. Looks might be initial spark but if there is nothing between the ears and you're only with someone because they are attractive; that relationship is doomed to fail.
Although one guy I did have a thing with I wasn't initially attracted too but the attraction grew after I got to know him.

Wealth doesn't worry me because I've always been independent and a hard worker, I just want someone who isn't a leech and can contribute.

 

[AFDogs]

Although one guy I did have a thing with I wasn't initially attracted too but the attraction grew after I got to know him.

This is the issue with online dating. Unless we have an initial attraction, we don't give people much of a go.

I find a girl from my work attractive purely because she's a great bird. She isn't visually attractive and I would swipe no on the apps to her but after working with her for 6-7 years she is an attractive, good person. She's getting married though

 

[11kgm]

Tinder bringing in some new rules

No social media links in bios
No screen shots of messages
No looking for sugar daddies
No couple accounts

There goes about 50 per cent of girls

 

[11kgm]

As they should.

I think women have unrealistic standards is more accurate

I've been called fat by girls much fatter then me, and I've seen girls in real life cat fishing on tinder there is a girl I work who would be over 100 kgs the photos on tinder are her skinny and in a bikini

I think people just need to be more honest I

 

[revo333]

Tinder bringing in some new rules

No social media links in bios
No screen shots of messages
No looking for sugar daddies
No couple accounts

There goes about 50 per cent of girls

Not a bad thing. I wonder if a decline in subscriptions has forced them to make some changes.

I'm sure some just use tinder to screenshot messages for TikTok content, both guys and girls.