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Ok, bigfooty boys of Tinder, here's a serious question from a girl using Tinder:

In all honesty, if a girl messages you first, do you think that it comes across as desperate? Or does that depend on what she says and/or when she has sent the message? Because I have recently matched with a rather attractive male, and no message from him has been forthcoming. I'm somewhat considering sending him a message, but don't want to come across as desperate/ a potential stage 5 clinger. 'Tis quite the conundrum.

See, I don't get why girls think this. There is no harm in sending the first message. Most guys will actually like that and no it doesn't come across as clingy.
 
Matched with a girl named Amanda, and it went down like this:

Me: What a coincidence, you're Amanda..and I'm amanda hug n kiss.

Her: lame

Me: Eh, haters gonna hate

Hahaha cool story huh

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Don't tell me, then this happened:

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Maybe a little overweight. I don't think she looks fat.

She's really only fat by footy WAG standards where most of them are stick insects like Rebecca Judd.
 
She's really only fat by footy WAG standards where most of them are stick insects like Rebecca Judd.
I reckon I know who'd be more fun in the sack though.. don't reckon it'd be juddy either
 
So I downloaded tinder as a late bloomer a couple of weeks ago. Being a bit of a noob I'm not swiping right on everyone just yet. Of maybe 80-100 odd swipes right have generated about a dozen matches. Of those dozen I have initiated conversations with maybe 5. Anyway, long story short is I have taken two of them out (each on the last two Saturday night) and have a had good success. One of which I am still talking to (the other I last spoke to on Friday and haven't heard back so I'm assuming that's done and dusted)

Question is, given I am no oil painting myself, is this some sort rare fluke or would this be pretty common stats among the general user base?

PS- the girls in question were probably a 7 and a 6 respectively.

It's easier the newer you are. If you're based in the city though I'm pretty sure you can live on Tinder forever and hang out with babes 24/7. That's how it seems from my view in the country anyway.
 
just installed POF. Haven't even registered or set up a profile, and already I got a notification regarding matches. LOL, must be automated I guess.
a mate of mine tried that - just remember the old adage of never stick dick in crazy, applies double on POF
 

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