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Cager Macleod said:
I just nope guys that are way fat or just not sexually attractive, I have the luxury of being able to pick and choose, thankfully. I work hard on keeping my body slim and toned. I don't want someone who won't have the stamina to keep up.

But most of the bad sex I have had has been with good looking guys who have probably got a way with it because they are hot as.

I know this sounds terrible shallow but when i am looking for sex, It's all on looks. When I actually want a relationship, I rate personality above looks as looks fade but someone with a great personality has a great personality for life.
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Cager Macleod said:
I just nope guys that are way fat or just not sexually attractive, I have the luxury of being able to pick and choose, thankfully. I work hard on keeping my body slim and toned. I don't want someone who won't have the stamina to keep up.

But most of the bad sex I have had has been with good looking guys who have probably got a way with it because they are hot as.

I know this sounds terrible shallow but when i am looking for sex, It's all on looks. When I actually want a relationship, I rate personality above looks as looks fade but someone with a great personality has a great personality for life.
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I don’t agree with the last bit, most people turn into angry campaigners as they get older.
 
Silent Alarm said:
You know, the older I get the more I think 'always try your best' is advice people would give for anything... except girls. Don't try too hard, don't text too quickly, don't like her...

So many times girls, and maybe they're just saying this, but they say things like 'you should have tried harder' or 'I was keen... you just stopped responding.' Don't forget lots of pretty girls with popularity are actually incredibly dumb and their life revolves around an outfit for a festival no one glances twice at them at. Always give it a go and don't give up.

Women are just people. Who knows their motivation or the outcome. Make the most of your current situation, because you definitely didn't plan to be where you were.
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I think most girls have a cloud of guys around them when they are single that rain down excessive complimentary comments, don't they?

It doesn't help your differentiation efforts if you fit in with them so I agree, signal your arrival on the scene, tell her you're interested in her then evaporate. Break her norm. Appear so confident to her as you move on from her immediately and you'll be interesting and different.

I always found myself seeking out the guy who bought me a drink and then disappeared over standing around with the guy who is still there grabbing my bum waiting for me to "pay him back", at least I told myself I was seeking him out to return the favour and buy him a drink. Potentially disarming my antidick defence because it's like a plutonic reciprocation but it opened the door to more time
 

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Tayl0r said:
I think most girls have a cloud of guys around them when they are single that rain down excessive complimentary comments, don't they?

It doesn't help your differentiation efforts if you fit in with them so I agree, signal your arrival on the scene, tell her you're interested in her then evaporate. Break her norm. Appear so confident to her as you move on from her immediately and you'll be interesting and different.

I always found myself seeking out the guy who bought me a drink and then disappeared over standing around with the guy who is still there grabbing my bum waiting for me to "pay him back", at least I told myself I was seeking him out to return the favour and buy him a drink. Potentially disarming my antidick defence because it's like a plutonic reciprocation but it opened the door to more time
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It's a very delicate mix of being a bit cool, going a period where you're not there literally physically or on her screen, and then not being that guy who never meets up after months of having his chance.
 
Silent Alarm said:
It's a very delicate mix of being a bit cool, going a period where you're not there literally physically or on her screen, and then not being that guy who never meets up after months of having his chance.
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I've found that nearly every girl I've dated, even if only a couple of times, has a story of a stalker/harasser or a near case of one. Women are probably wired now to recognize the warning signs of a guy who is getting too easily attached/infatuated.

Even if your intentions are genuine, you just really like the girl, and take rejection well (i.e not being a stalker/nutcase) as you say, sometimes lesser is better.
 
the_interloper said:
I don’t agree with the last bit, most people turn into angry campaigners as they get older.
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Yeah but that means I'll be grumpy too so it won't matter as much.

We have romantic sits on the park bench yelling at children.
 
Cager Macleod said:
Yeah but that means I'll be grumpy too so it won't matter as much.

We have romantic sits on the park bench yelling at children.
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And the pigeons. Rats with wings
 
As a young man I learnt a very valuable lesson, I had a crush on a girl who was a year above me in high school. She was stunning and seemed really cool. I use to watch her walk past my house of a morning and dream that one day I would be walking beside her. This went on for some time and eventually she took notice of me when I helped win the schools first ever team trophy (in Soccer) and was subsequently presented with the trophy and individual award for district player of the tournament in front of the whole school of 500+ in assembly.

I made a speech about how some things you think are unachievable lay right there at your feet and just require that tiny bit of courage and self belief to become attainable. I knew where this girl was in the crowd and was making intermittent eye contact whilst relaying my spine tingling, All American-esque speech. Afterwards I went up to her and asked her if she would like to go to the movies that weekend. She and all her friends laughed in my face and walked away giggling. But, here is the kicker, in my letterbox merely a week later was a Christmas card from this girl, wishing me the best for my future and saying that she was sure I would be a big star one day (it was her last year at High School).

It was a nice letter and I would often smell it whilst masturbating.
 
james Dean said:
I've found that nearly every girl I've dated, even if only a couple of times, has a story of a stalker/harasser or a near case of one. Women are probably wired now to recognize the warning signs of a guy who is getting too easily attached/infatuated.

Even if your intentions are genuine, you just really like the girl, and take rejection well (i.e not being a stalker/nutcase) as you say, sometimes lesser is better.
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Rejection is a part of life. You have to remember how many little elements and factors go into forming a person and what their wants are from. You can't begrudge someone for not liking you because essentially their taste is even out of their control. And when you meet someone who likes you it is worth the rejection, and someone who likes those small things or appreciates your positives is a nice thing. People are very odd.

I just think people lack social skills now too, of both sets. Girls may be keen but don't know how to actually show it. Can't tell you how many times I've had dead end, absolute dullard chat with someone but they respond quickly or say hi every morning but it's so dull you just don't know what's going on. Maybe that is a sign there's no spark but regardless, blokes often go eh **** this she's not keen. The other side is women get pretty down on the lack of confidence men display. I have seen it first hand... good looking dudes with traits that are naturally attractive to women and yet they lack the main one: confidence. That is not just a good sense of 'ah he doesn't give a shit' or the fact you're known to her, but it's this deep down reflection that you're someone who is confident in what they can offer. You can suck in other ways but being able to non-creepily chat to a chick means a lot. Think of those goofy, funny looking mates who don't dress 'cool' or whatever but everyone likes them – blokes see them as funny ****ers, good friends and girls see them as a harmless threat and someone with a cheeky attitude.

Haven't had to but what happened to being able to stand at a pub, bar might be a few deep, and striking up chat? Even if it's 'jeez, pretty busy' like dross it shows some sort of ability to converse and a willingness to open up. Then again so many girls of 18-25 are of a generation of not expecting this so when they do they're more likely to shut you down than a girl in the 1990s but hey, who gives a shit, that's their issue and not yours... even if they have a boyfriend they can still laugh and say something then just walk off.

The issue is the majority of blokes who do the cold approach are slimy French backpackers who think they've got the pull Eric Cantona does or your pick up artist types.
 
craigos said:
As a young man I learnt a very valuable lesson, I had a crush on a girl who was a year above me in high school. She was stunning and seemed really cool. I use to watch her walk past my house of a morning and dream that one day I would be walking beside her. This went on for some time and eventually she took notice of me when I helped win the schools first ever team trophy (in Soccer) and was subsequently presented with the trophy and individual award for district player of the tournament in front of the whole school of 500+ in assembly.

I made a speech about how some things you think are unachievable lay right there at your feet and just require that tiny bit of courage and self belief to become attainable. I knew where this girl was in the crowd and was making intermittent eye contact whilst relaying my spine tingling, All American-esque speech. Afterwards I went up to her and asked her if she would like to go to the movies that weekend. She and all her friends laughed in my face and walked away giggling. But, here is the kicker, in my letterbox merely a week later was a Christmas card from this girl, wishing me the best for my future and saying that she was sure I would be a big star one day (it was her last year at High School).

It was a nice letter and I would often smell it whilst masturbating.
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Most people are totally different around their friends. Girls don't like their boyfriends going out on the piss because they think they're 'different' and 'up to no good.' Yeah you talk about girls but you're not out there on the pull, generally you're just having a laugh and taking the piss. Girls in groups are extremely bitchy, sassy, and have this real nastiness about them and their more instinctual, sexual side seems to come out. Shit's grotty.
 
craigos said:
As a young man I learnt a very valuable lesson, I had a crush on a girl who was a year above me in high school. She was stunning and seemed really cool. I use to watch her walk past my house of a morning and dream that one day I would be walking beside her. This went on for some time and eventually she took notice of me when I helped win the schools first ever team trophy (in Soccer) and was subsequently presented with the trophy and individual award for district player of the tournament in front of the whole school of 500+ in assembly.

I made a speech about how some things you think are unachievable lay right there at your feet and just require that tiny bit of courage and self belief to become attainable. I knew where this girl was in the crowd and was making intermittent eye contact whilst relaying my spine tingling, All American-esque speech. Afterwards I went up to her and asked her if she would like to go to the movies that weekend. She and all her friends laughed in my face and walked away giggling. But, here is the kicker, in my letterbox merely a week later was a Christmas card from this girl, wishing me the best for my future and saying that she was sure I would be a big star one day (it was her last year at High School).

It was a nice letter and I would often smell it whilst masturbating.
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What lesson?
 

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craigos said:
As a young man I learnt a very valuable lesson, I had a crush on a girl who was a year above me in high school. She was stunning and seemed really cool. I use to watch her walk past my house of a morning and dream that one day I would be walking beside her. This went on for some time and eventually she took notice of me when I helped win the schools first ever team trophy (in Soccer) and was subsequently presented with the trophy and individual award for district player of the tournament in front of the whole school of 500+ in assembly.

I made a speech about how some things you think are unachievable lay right there at your feet and just require that tiny bit of courage and self belief to become attainable. I knew where this girl was in the crowd and was making intermittent eye contact whilst relaying my spine tingling, All American-esque speech. Afterwards I went up to her and asked her if she would like to go to the movies that weekend. She and all her friends laughed in my face and walked away giggling. But, here is the kicker, in my letterbox merely a week later was a Christmas card from this girl, wishing me the best for my future and saying that she was sure I would be a big star one day (it was her last year at High School).

It was a nice letter and I would often smell it whilst masturbating.
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BRAVO.
 
SnakeMan86 said:
The last time i was Single we had to use MSN messenger to talk to girls.
Separated around 12 months ago, Tried tinder for about 5 minutes..... It's a different, strange scary world out there..... :$
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a/s/l?
 
SnakeMan86 said:
The last time i was Single we had to use MSN messenger to talk to girls.
Separated around 12 months ago, Tried tinder for about 5 minutes..... It's a different, strange scary world out there..... :$
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We had to use "telephones" back in my day and make "phone calls", sometimes we'd even go out and meet girls at "pubs".
 

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So the topic amongst the millennials at work today. Are guys or girls more desperate on Tinder.

My response:
Guys go right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right right....

Best bit was the story of chatting to a guy who turned out to be a cousin of her ex boyfriend.
 
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