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Arm2Leg said:
I've had Tinder for 18 days now, swipe right 70% of the time, and am checking the app whenever I get the chance. Not once have I matched with anyone.

Being a 24 year old virgin, this is quite disheartening. Any tips out there? I know for a fact that BigFooty is absolutely teeming with good-looking socialites; hopefully I can fetch some proper advice here!

Thanks.
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You know you're ugly when you can't even get the automated computer spam bots to match with you.
 

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Richo is God said:
Also pay $12.99/mo to:
Go back to your previous swipe and swipe again
Change location - swipe and match with people anywhere in the world
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I hope you didn't write back.

Funnily enough, it's also your best chance at pulling a root with her, albeit probably still quite a slim chance.

Can't compete with chicks like that. Wreck your head.
 
Scotland said:
That's just women. Reserve the right to change their mind, move the goalposts etc. about at anything at any time - and then complain that guys only want them for sex.
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That's bullshit

She's just being honest - If everyone was as honest as she was, then relationships would be 1000x easier...

You can't help how you feel - Sounds like King Cat did a fine show of treating her to a nice day out, but that doesn't mean she really owes him anything short of showing gratitude and responding with good will in kind..

if she ended up not feeling comfortable, which isn't to say King Cat did anything wrong, but if that's how she felt, that's how she felt. The worst outcome would be if she was to feel 'compelled' to continue seeing KC on the basis that he hadn't done anything wrong amongst feelings that she shouldbe feeling comfortable...

It's just one of those things... I give her 10/10 for honesty and from what I can tell with KC's attitude (based on his post) 10/10 for his attitude to response... it sucks, but that's life
 
The Passenger said:
Probably not a bad way to look at it radiojake - It still doesn't ease the frustration.
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Oh for sure.. it can be terribly frustrating/dissapointing

Same kind of thing happened to me last week... It was all very quick - Met her on Thursday night at show through a mutual friend. Got on real well, exchanged numbers, had a sneaky pash while the band was playing and the crowd was thick with dancing..

Next day texted her and we decided to catch up again for drinks that night - Met at a pub, a few jugs, a few laughs, totally flirting..

walked her home, we had a pash on the door step and then she said 'good night' and went inside so I rode home thinking that it was all good...

got a text two days later saying that she doesn't think we should see each other because she's not in the right headspace and she has an ex-boyfriend hanging around rar rar rar..... I was devo.. I was smitten pretty quick and I thought it was going to go somewhere..

oh well, not to be - Yeah it sucks, but I'd much prefer someone be brutally honest like that than it to go on a bit further and it get messier ...
 

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the the call over text thing is probably a legitimate thing to be irked about - however I know some people who never call and are chronic texters...

otherwise I liked your honesty King Cat, better luck next time, eh?
 
King Cat said:
Long time reader so I thought I'd contribute. Have been in touch with this girl from tinder for about 2 months. It was going fantastically well. Had our third date last Saturday night where I did the whole picnic in a nice spot thing. I cooked all the good put on a good spread. Everything had been going well we even discussed going to Sydney in 2 weeks for the weekend for my birthday. So anyway the date didn't seem to go as we'll as I thought started well. As I said I had made effort. So then no contact on Sunday after I send the obligatory day after text. Then I get this on Monday night.

I'm okay. I've just needed some time to process my feelings. I've wanted to call you, but I've put it off. I guess something changed for me the other night. You were so sweet, and the effort you put in, was more than anyone has done for me, for such a long time. That was really special. For some reason, I just didn't feel comfortable. I think I just felt a lot of pressure, and I freaked out. I should love that someone made such an effort for me, but it made me realise, I don't think I'm the right person for you.

Not to fussed but fair dinkum. Woman who knows what to do.
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Head f**k alert.

Move on
 
radiojake said:
That's bullshit

She's just being honest - If everyone was as honest as she was, then relationships would be 1000x easier...
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Yeah, nah.

Some people have a funny definition of honesty.

King Cat said:
I'm okay. I've just needed some time to process my feelings. I've wanted to call you, but I've put it off. I guess something changed for me the other night. You were so sweet, and the effort you put in, was more than anyone has done for me, for such a long time. That was really special. For some reason, I just didn't feel comfortable. I think I just felt a lot of pressure, and I freaked out. I should love that someone made such an effort for me, but it made me realise, I don't think I'm the right person for you.
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It's a third date. A character limit breaking text like the above really isn't required.

The girl just isn't into King Cat. All the fluff is just her way of dancing around saying as such, in an attempt to make herself feel better about it. She could just never contact him again, or send a 'not interested, you're a dick' text etc., but then she'd feel bad about it.

If she was genuinely 'honest' it would go one of two ways. If was interested and had reservations or thought he was going too fast or whatever she'd want to clear the air and make sure they were on the same wavelength. If she wasn't interested she'd simply say 'It was nice meeting you but I'm not interested'.

Pretty stock standard superficial bullshit as I read it anyway.
 
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