Computers & Internet Tinder

[Rough_Edges]

i reckon you're the clinger

 

[Slax]

For me:

Less than 30 mins = ideal
30 mins- 60 mins = bit of a pain/not ideal
60mins - 2 hours = massive pain/ridiculous
2 hours + = forget it, someone move ffs.

I hate driving.

Agree but there are a few provisos for me as willing to travel further under certain circumstances

Really hot - move up two groups
Good root - move up one group
Rich - move up one group

 

[Prudster]

Agree but there are a few provisos for me as willing to travel further under certain circumstances

Really hot - move up two groups
Good root - move up one group
Rich - move up one group

What if she's all three?

 

[LicoriceAllsorts]

What if she's all three?

Marry her

 

[Shell]

Who's Mary?

 

[Shell]

Seems pretty fair.

Are those numbers subject to change depending on the person though?

I guess. If the feeling is mutual, you would both make more of an effort with distance.

The ex I mentioned before- it was definitely annoying him being 1 hour from me, we only had a relationship on the weekends for the 3.5 years we were together! But I coped okay, am alright with my own company/ am definitely not a clingy type person, so it was fine. Mostly.

 

[Slax]

What if she's all three?

You should be entering into a proper relationship with her in that case. If she can tick those three boxes then you can work around the other problems

 

[The Sultan]

What if she's all three?

move...

 

[Shell]

Would you guys honestly want to move though? Again, going back to my ex- there is no way in hell I would live where he did. (Pakenham- no offence to people reading this who live there, but god I hated it)- and he loved it where he was/ vice versa. Guess maybe in that situation, you'd eventually compromise and move to a completely new place when you are both ready to live together?

 

[Sublime]

Would you guys honestly want to move though? Again, going back to my ex- there is no way in hell I would live where he did. (Pakenham- no offence to people reading this who live there, but god I hated it)- and he loved it where he was/ vice versa. Guess maybe in that situation, you'd eventually compromise and move to a completely new place when you are both ready to live together?

If the person is the one for you there is always a compromise.

 

[MrNatural]

i reckon you're the clinger

Far from it.
I just would prefer an honest answer.

 

[MrNatural]

Would you guys honestly want to move though? Again, going back to my ex- there is no way in hell I would live where he did. (Pakenham- no offence to people reading this who live there, but god I hated it)- and he loved it where he was/ vice versa. Guess maybe in that situation, you'd eventually compromise and move to a completely new place when you are both ready to live together?

I was a Pakenham resident until only a few weeks back...

 

[Sublime]

I was a Pakenham resident until only a few weeks back...

 

[Shell]

I was a Pakenham resident until only a few weeks back...

Did you like Pakenham?

 

[Vekgib]

When I was 21 and living in Wollongong but working in Sydney, met a chick from Newcastle one night after work.
We tried to make it last but after about 12 months we both realised that the distance was a killer.
This is back in the 1980's.Before Skype, mobiles etc.
Funny thing is, we're now Facebook friends and chat quite often.

 

[BotsMaster]

When you live in the country every relationship you have is long distance going by the standards in this thread.

Long distance to me would be in another state or country.

 

[Taylor]

I was FwB with a really good friend doing FIFO. It is unhealthy, three weeks off and one week of nothing but bonking.

 

[Rough_Edges]

I was FwB with a really good friend doing FIFO. It is unhealthy, three weeks off and one week of nothing but bonking.

You and I have a different idea of the meaning of 'unhealthy'

 

[Sublime]

You and I have a different idea of the meaning of 'unhealthy'

Binge and purge is unhealthy in everything.

I love KFC but i couldn't eat it non stop for a week.

 

[Taylor]

You and I have a different idea of the meaning of 'unhealthy'

I was missing him too much and instead of watching the footy and movies it was no time for human emotional interaction and just all sex and sleep

 

[I Lost My Keays]

If a chick was more than hour away , I wouldn't bother.....

 

[Big Bryza]

I was missing him too much and instead of watching the footy and movies it was no time for human emotional interaction and just all sex and sleep

So, how you doing?

 

[Taylor]

Goooooooood

 

[LicoriceAllsorts]

tha heck

 

[ShanDog]

I met my wife when we both lived in Victoria but didn't start dating until I was already living in Townsville. Did a year long distance, seeing each other only a few times before she moved up.

My tenth wedding anniversary is in November.

When you meet the right person, you make it work.