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About 50% of girls play the "number game" on tinder. Get a lot of matches with no real intention of speaking to the majority of them.

I have a female house mate she has over 600 matches, she is a attractive chick probably a 6.5. She reckons she has only spoke to about 200 of them. Its pretty dumb, I don't see the point. Do they show off to there friends about how many matches they have?

I have had about 200 matches, but I currently have about 20 on there, if they don't talk within 48 hours = deleted. If we do talk and they can't hold a conversation = deleted. If things just aren't going anywhere = deleted. Pointless having them for no reason. Half the time it's my fault as well they will want to go out for drinks or something and I never have the time so it kind of just fizzles out.

Only advice I can give for tinder is to be honest and let them know early you want to meet in person (if you do) otherwise the interest will die out very quickly.
 

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Ever since I put in a bio I got a lot more girls beginning the conversation first/more matches. Put in a bio otherwise you're missing out on girls that are sitting on the fence as to whether to swipe right or left, and end up swiping left because you put in no bio to spark their interest.
 
Joker91 said:
About 50% of girls play the "number game" on tinder. Get a lot of matches with no real intention of speaking to the majority of them.

I have a female house mate she has over 600 matches, she is a attractive chick probably a 6.5. She reckons she has only spoke to about 200 of them. Its pretty dumb, I don't see the point. Do they show off to there friends about how many matches they have?

I have had about 200 matches, but I currently have about 20 on there, if they don't talk within 48 hours = deleted. If we do talk and they can't hold a conversation = deleted. If things just aren't going anywhere = deleted. Pointless having them for no reason. Half the time it's my fault as well they will want to go out for drinks or something and I never have the time so it kind of just fizzles out.

Only advice I can give for tinder is to be honest and let them know early you want to meet in person (if you do) otherwise the interest will die out very quickly.
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Girls expect guys to make the first move most of the time because getting matches as a girl is so much easier than as a guy, so they can afford to be picky/lazy when it comes to doing anything.
 
Dory_77 said:
Girls expect guys to make the first move most of the time because getting matches as a girl is so much easier than as a guy, so they can afford to be picky/lazy when it comes to doing anything.
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most are just lazy lovers who expect the world to be handed to them for free.
 
Joker91 said:
I have had about 200 matches, but I currently have about 20 on there, if they don't talk within 48 hours = deleted. If we do talk and they can't hold a conversation = deleted. If things just aren't going anywhere = deleted. Pointless having them for no reason. Half the time it's my fault as well they will want to go out for drinks or something and I never have the time so it kind of just fizzles out.
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I thought the same but have found the patience game to be as rewarding, have had girls on for 2-3 months without no conversation but sometimes the timing isn't right for conversation straight away.
 
Joker91 said:
About 50% of girls play the "number game" on tinder. Get a lot of matches with no real intention of speaking to the majority of them.

I have a female house mate she has over 600 matches, she is a attractive chick probably a 6.5. She reckons she has only spoke to about 200 of them. Its pretty dumb, I don't see the point. Do they show off to there friends about how many matches they have?

I have had about 200 matches, but I currently have about 20 on there, if they don't talk within 48 hours = deleted. If we do talk and they can't hold a conversation = deleted. If things just aren't going anywhere = deleted. Pointless having them for no reason. Half the time it's my fault as well they will want to go out for drinks or something and I never have the time so it kind of just fizzles out.

Only advice I can give for tinder is to be honest and let them know early you want to meet in person (if you do) otherwise the interest will die out very quickly.
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It's an ego thing
 
Blaz_Cotchin9 said:
Ever since I put in a bio I got a lot more girls beginning the conversation first/more matches. Put in a bio otherwise you're missing out on girls that are sitting on the fence as to whether to swipe right or left, and end up swiping left because you put in no bio to spark their interest.
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I've always had a bio but it hasn't done too much more to help get matches. Maybe your bio is a lot better than mine hahhaa
 
AusHorrorStory said:
I've always had a bio but it hasn't done too much more to help get matches. Maybe your bio is a lot better than mine hahhaa
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If you're tall (over 6 foot) definitely put in your height, I've got "I'm 6 foot 3 so my hoodies are probably too big for you" - sound like an absolute campaigner but I'm pretty sure this is the line that has increased the number of matches.

Chuck in what your interests are and/or what you're studying. If you play sport put that in too. Just make it sound like you'd be interesting to talk to.
 
Joker91 said:
About 50% of girls play the "number game" on tinder. Get a lot of matches with no real intention of speaking to the majority of them.

I have a female house mate she has over 600 matches, she is a attractive chick probably a 6.5. She reckons she has only spoke to about 200 of them. Its pretty dumb, I don't see the point. Do they show off to there friends about how many matches they have?

I have had about 200 matches, but I currently have about 20 on there, if they don't talk within 48 hours = deleted. If we do talk and they can't hold a conversation = deleted. If things just aren't going anywhere = deleted. Pointless having them for no reason. Half the time it's my fault as well they will want to go out for drinks or something and I never have the time so it kind of just fizzles out.

Only advice I can give for tinder is to be honest and let them know early you want to meet in person (if you do) otherwise the interest will die out very quickly.
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Oh yeah, I've seen that recently with girls using it like a social platform. They'll update their 'moments' with photos and half the time that ends up being a "home alone!", "anyone at ----- tonight?", or "who's selling at Southbound?" shout out. Bizarre shit. There's this really attractive chick on there who must swipe right to everyone because she'll update her moments saying how a "Tinder admirer" has just given her flowers or come into her work... Do not get it.
 

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Silent Alarm said:
Oh yeah, I've seen that recently with girls using it like a social platform. They'll update their 'moments' with photos and half the time that ends up being a "home alone!", "anyone at ----- tonight?", or "who's selling at Southbound?" shout out. Bizarre shit. There's this really attractive chick on there who must swipe right to everyone because she'll update her moments saying how a "Tinder admirer" has just given her flowers or come into her work... Do not get it.
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Had similar experiences. There's this one girl who has on a few occasions posted a moment showing a picture of her instagram profile with the caption "follow me" followed by that emoticon blowing a kiss. Like seriously m8 GAGF. The same girl has also posted a moment which was a screenshot of her matches, showing that she had 3,001 with the caption #tindersllutt

Edit - from memory the images of the guys in that screenshot were all ugly from what I could tell, and looked liked flogs, so there you go.
 
Blaz_Cotchin9 said:
If you're tall (over 6 foot) definitely put in your height, I've got "I'm 6 foot 3 so my hoodies are probably too big for you" - sound like an absolute campaigner but I'm pretty sure this is the line that has increased the number of matches.

Chuck in what your interests are and/or what you're studying. If you play sport put that in too. Just make it sound like you'd be interesting to talk to.
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Very solid :thumbsu:
 
Blaz_Cotchin9 said:
If you're tall (over 6 foot) definitely put in your height, I've got "I'm 6 foot 3 so my hoodies are probably too big for you" - sound like an absolute campaigner but I'm pretty sure this is the line that has increased the number of matches.
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Is 5'6" tall yet? :cry:
 
Silent Alarm said:
Oh yeah, I've seen that recently with girls using it like a social platform. They'll update their 'moments' with photos and half the time that ends up being a "home alone!", "anyone at ----- tonight?", or "who's selling at Southbound?" shout out. Bizarre shit. There's this really attractive chick on there who must swipe right to everyone because she'll update her moments saying how a "Tinder admirer" has just given her flowers or come into her work... Do not get it.
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I'm so happy at the fact that there are a number of terms in this post that I don't know the meaning of.

I know that I should probably feel old, instead I'm happy to disassociate myself and my life with people like you.
 
Blaz_Cotchin9 said:
Ever since I put in a bio I got a lot more girls beginning the conversation first/more matches. Put in a bio otherwise you're missing out on girls that are sitting on the fence as to whether to swipe right or left, and end up swiping left because you put in no bio to spark their interest.
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Will admit, this "change" has worked for me recently. A lot more interest (and interest from attractive girls that actually make conversation) than just a blank space got me, even though my photos have remained the same.

Might somehow work my height into it though, considering I'm a genuine 6'4", just to see if that garners further interest.
 

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jasonwilde said:
I'm so happy at the fact that there are a number of terms in this post that I don't know the meaning of.

I know that I should probably feel old, instead I'm happy to disassociate myself and my life with people like you.
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Haha wow that got heavy quickly. What don't you understand in that post anyway? The only somewhat challenging terminology - maybe for you anyway - is references to Tinder features like "moments" and "swiping right". And if you don't know what they are then I'm not sure what you're doing in a Tinder thread. But I digress...
 
I matched this girl about a week ago. We had some mutual friends but I never said hi and she obviously didn't either. Anyway, sitting on facebook, and out of nowhere I get a friend request from this girl. Ya what fella
 
Damon_3388 said:
Will admit, this "change" has worked for me recently. A lot more interest (and interest from attractive girls that actually make conversation) than just a blank space got me, even though my photos have remained the same.

Might somehow work my height into it though, considering I'm a genuine 6'4", just to see if that garners further interest.
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Get 6'4" in there asap
reap the rewards
 
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