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BluesMan said:
Looks like the lads matching this girl are using a classic name pun :D
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Went to high school with her hahaha
 

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Ok, bigfooty boys of Tinder, here's a serious question from a girl using Tinder:

In all honesty, if a girl messages you first, do you think that it comes across as desperate? Or does that depend on what she says and/or when she has sent the message? Because I have recently matched with a rather attractive male, and no message from him has been forthcoming. I'm somewhat considering sending him a message, but don't want to come across as desperate/ a potential stage 5 clinger. 'Tis quite the conundrum.
 
catters_28 said:
Ok, bigfooty boys of Tinder, here's a serious question from a girl using Tinder:

In all honesty, if a girl messages you first, do you think that it comes across as desperate? Or does that depend on what she says and/or when she has sent the message? Because I have recently matched with a rather attractive male, and no message from him has been forthcoming. I'm somewhat considering sending him a message, but don't want to come across as desperate/ a potential stage 5 clinger. 'Tis quite the conundrum.
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If he isn't sending a message then you obviously need to send one

It can seem desperate tbh, because of the stigma of the guy hitting things off, but not always


just message him if it's been significant time
 
catters_28 said:
Ok, bigfooty boys of Tinder, here's a serious question from a girl using Tinder:

In all honesty, if a girl messages you first, do you think that it comes across as desperate? Or does that depend on what she says and/or when she has sent the message? Because I have recently matched with a rather attractive male, and no message from him has been forthcoming. I'm somewhat considering sending him a message, but don't want to come across as desperate/ a potential stage 5 clinger. 'Tis quite the conundrum.
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Not desperate at all - I take it as a positive.
 
been quiet on tinder the last month so at the beginning of the week in my profile i wrote 'not looking for anything serious' and i have had 3 girls send me messages that i matched with weeks ago :cool:
 

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catters_28 said:
Ok, bigfooty boys of Tinder, here's a serious question from a girl using Tinder:

In all honesty, if a girl messages you first, do you think that it comes across as desperate? Or does that depend on what she says and/or when she has sent the message? Because I have recently matched with a rather attractive male, and no message from him has been forthcoming. I'm somewhat considering sending him a message, but don't want to come across as desperate/ a potential stage 5 clinger. 'Tis quite the conundrum.
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The only way a girl comes across as a stage 5 is if she wont stop contacting you all the time. Just sending a simple opening message is fine.
 
Been on a bit of a miss last few tinder dates. Until went out with this one girl who has perked my interest. Followed up a couple times, see how we go.
 
Gubbz said:
Matched with a girl named Amanda, and it went down like this:

Me: What a coincidence, you're Amanda..and I'm amanda hug n kiss.

Her: lame

Me: Eh, haters gonna hate

Hahaha cool story huh

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Pre-tinder days but I used the same line on an Amanda. It was more successful though.

If they don't get Simpsons references they are probably not with getting.
 
catters_28 said:
Ok, bigfooty boys of Tinder, here's a serious question from a girl using Tinder:

In all honesty, if a girl messages you first, do you think that it comes across as desperate? Or does that depend on what she says and/or when she has sent the message? Because I have recently matched with a rather attractive male, and no message from him has been forthcoming. I'm somewhat considering sending him a message, but don't want to come across as desperate/ a potential stage 5 clinger. 'Tis quite the conundrum.
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You should give head on the first date, if you don't you'll come across desperate.
 

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MEB_ said:
When I was on tinder I had "Who's trying to kill you Mr. Donut Man? I dunno but he better not!" and looked favorably upon any fellas who got it.
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As long as you don't buy me a gun rack,
I don't even own A gun, let alone many guns that would necessitate an entire rack.
 
So I've had this app since the start of January (after coming out of a two and a half year relationship), and I've already met the parents of another girl.

Am I doing this right BigFooty?
 
philcara16 said:
So I've had this app since the start of January (after coming out of a two and a half year relationship), and I've already met the parents of another girl.

Am I doing this right BigFooty?
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Did you bang them?
 
sojthebest said:
How come all the girls who describe themselves as being footy fans in their bio are usually overweight?
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Because meat pies are delicious
 
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