Computers & Internet Tinder

[Footypie32]

Did some swiping without reading profiles match with a 26 year old

Her bio consists of I have 4 kids I’m looking for a good guy please don’t **** me around

Nah think a few have beaten me to it

Found one with a pretty nice looking photo of her in her gym gear.

Read the profile and she says she has 2 kids and is currently preggas! Then comments at the end that she doesn't want any man-sluts. Umm....

 

[craigos]

People in long term relationships are also generally pretty shit at giving advice.

And also terrible at overestimating their friends level of attractiveness.

 

[Scotland]

And also terrible at overestimating their friends level of attractiveness.

That's just people in general.

Girls love to sell their friends as much hotter, nicer etc. than they actually are.

If a single guy is trying to sell an apparently awesome girl I'm always a little suspicious.

 

[GreyCrow]

Awesome personality

 

[Better Loosen Up]

Found one with a pretty nice looking photo of her in her gym gear.

Read the profile and she says she has 2 kids and is currently preggas! Then comments at the end that she doesn't want any man-sluts. Umm....

What a catch!!!

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

Dating while preggo, interesting

 

[FoolCat]

Dating while preggo, interesting

It's a pretty popular pastime you'll find

 

[Andre]

It's a pretty popular pastime you'll find

I’m happily married and past Tinder age (44) even if I wasn’t, but by this (amusing) thread you’d think Australia is about to have a massive baby boom. Tinder women seem to be 80% single mothers, 10% bunny boilers looking for someone to pay maintenance for future kids and 10% single women without kids (or wanting kids anytime soon).

 

[BlueBelle]

Found one with a pretty nice looking photo of her in her gym gear.

Read the profile and she says she has 2 kids and is currently preggas! Then comments at the end that she doesn't want any man-sluts. Umm....

Wow. Just wow

 

[Duritz]

I dare someone to do the following for a week and see what happens:

1. Change all your pictures to ones of Jeffrey Dahma

2. Change your profile to the following: “Looking for a clean, sumptuous girl who is just my taste. I’m good in the kitchen and can cook you up a storm.”

3. Wait for the matches to roll on in.

 

[RU_]

Sheesh. Lots of warning signs with this one!

 

[Duritz]

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Sheesh. Lots of warning signs with this one!

You should send her flowers RU.

In fact send her dead ones. She’ll probably propose.

 

[GreyCrow]

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Sheesh. Lots of warning signs with this one!

Get anything you plan or do in writing before smashing her window or door

 

[Jatz]

How can it be rapeplay if she knows it's happening?

 

[HirdyLannister]

How can it be rapeplay if she knows it's happening?

Watch the Aussie movie The Little Death, a couple runs into that problem.

 

[MatthewB]

Watch the Aussie movie The Little Death, a couple runs into that problem.

also happened on a episode of Law and Order: SVU

 

[perthblue]

How can it be rapeplay if she knows it's happening?

I think you're focusing too much on the rape bit and not enough on the play bit

 

[Jatz]

I think you're focusing too much on the rape bit and not enough on the play bit

I have no idea where to focus, the whole concept to me seems impossible.

 

[M Malice]

Just a slight variation of BDSM.

 

[TheWoodenSlug]

I have no idea where to focus, the whole concept to me seems impossible.

Yeah, I'm with you. How do the guys enjoy it? Pretending to rape someone doesn't seem like it would be very fun, unless of course you're an actual rapist. Also, how do you find girls that enjoy it - trial and error?

Each to their own I guess.

 

[gaskin]

Yeah, I'm with you. How do the guys enjoy it? Pretending to rape someone doesn't seem like it would be very fun, unless of course you're an actual rapist. Also, how do you find girls that enjoy it - trial and error?

Each to their own I guess.

It is probably a control thing.

 

[perthblue]

Yeah, I'm with you. How do the guys enjoy it? Pretending to rape someone doesn't seem like it would be very fun, unless of course you're an actual rapist. Also, how do you find girls that enjoy it - trial and error?

Each to their own I guess.

Like all BDSM kinks, the core of the enjoyment is dominance and submission

 

[Billy ray]

need to attend kink university

 

[TheWoodenSlug]

It is probably a control thing.

Like all BDSM kinks, the core of the enjoyment is dominance and submission

Yeah that's what I'm getting at. Finding it enjoyable to control & dominate your submissive partner by simulating rape doesn't seem healthy to me. It actually seems like guys that would enjoy that would enjoy actually raping someone - i.e. enjoying the control and dominance is common for actual rapists.

 

[perthblue]

Yeah that's what I'm getting at. Finding it enjoyable to control & dominate your submissive partner doesn't seem healthy to me.

It's just roleplay. Playing out a fantasy, safely, with someone you trust is the point. If I was a woman, I wouldn't engage in that sort of thing with some Tinder rando.