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[TheWoodenSlug]

It's just roleplay. Playing out a fantasy, safely, with someone you trust is the point. If I was a woman, I wouldn't engage in that sort of thing with some Tinder rando.

Yeah I get that it's roleplay/fantasy. It's the mindset that would find acting out a rape enjoyable that I find confusing. Strikes me as unhealthy.

I reckon a random dude would be the best option for it though - if I'm going to pretend to be r*ped, might as well make it believable. I'd have him kick his way through my door and **** me at knife point.

 

[perthblue]

Yeah I get that it's roleplay/fantasy. It's the mindset that would find acting out a rape enjoyable that I find confusing. Strikes me as unhealthy.

If you're an adult who safely engages in your kinks with other consenting adults, then I can hardly see whats unhealthy about that.

I reckon a random dude would be the best option for it though - if I'm going to pretend to be r*ped, might as well make it believable. I'd have him kick his way through my door and **** me at knife point.

Like I said earlier, people put too much weight on the 'rape' in 'rape fantasy'
Generally, women who are into rape fantasies don't want to risk actual danger

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

anyone else getting the heebie jeebies by this conversation or just me?

 

[perthblue]

anyone else getting the heebie jeebies by this conversation or just me?

I regretted everything I posted immediately after clicking 'Post Reply' but I will keep all the posts up as a warning to other people never to speak to me.

 

[TheWoodenSlug]

If you're an adult who safely engages in your kinks with other consenting adults, then I can hardly see whats unhealthy about that.

Looks like we're going to have to agree to disagree on that.

Like I said earlier, people put too much weight on the 'rape' in 'rape fantasy'
Generally, women who are into rape fantasies don't want to risk actual danger

Yeah, I was more talking about the man rather than the woman, and the mindset required to find their part in the fantasy enjoyable. I can kind of understand the other side of the equation - a little bit naughty, and he wants to **** me so bad he can't resist sort of thing.

 

[Golden_6]

If you're an adult who safely engages in your kinks with other consenting adults, then I can hardly see whats unhealthy about that.



Like I said earlier, people put too much weight on the 'rape' in 'rape fantasy'
Generally, women who are into rape fantasies don't want to risk actual danger

Yeah it's not so much the 'rape' part as it isn't actual rape but there are a lot of girls who get quite turned on by being overpowered by a stronger and more dominant person. As a generalization, these types of women are generally more independent and powerful in their day to day lives and use this as a outlet.

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

A bit of spanking or being pinned can be quite sexy. I can't see how a rape fantasy could be sexy.

 

[TheWoodenSlug]

Yeah it's not so much the 'rape' part as it isn't actual rape but there are a lot of girls who get quite turned on by being overpowered by a stronger and more dominant person. As a generalization, these types of women are generally more independent and powerful in their day to day lives and use this as a outlet.

What are your thoughts on the guys that get turned on by actually doing the overpowering, dominating & controlling?

It's possible that I'm just a prude tbh.

 

[perthblue]

What are your thoughts on the guys that get turned on by actually doing the overpowering, dominating & controlling?

It's possible that I'm just a prude tbh.

Two sides of the same coin, really, so I do find it a bit odd that you can understand why a woman might enjoy the submissive part, but not why the man would enjoy the dominant part.

 

[TheWoodenSlug]

Two sides of the same coin, really, so I do find it a bit odd that you can understand why a woman might enjoy the submissive part, but not why the man would enjoy the dominant part.

I guess because I think there is a distinction between being a pretend victim and being a pretend perpetrator, at least in terms of the mindset required to derive pleasure from it.

 

[Scotland]

A bit of spanking or being pinned can be quite sexy. I can't see how a rape fantasy could be sexy.

That's the spirit...

 

[Glacier]

anyone else getting the heebie jeebies by this conversation or just me?

Totally

 

[BotsMaster]

Anyone tried Feeld?

 

[Billy ray]

Anyone tried Feeld?

Was just reading about it. If i find myself single again thats what i will try first up

 

[Brad Goodman]

Yeah that's what I'm getting at. Finding it enjoyable to control & dominate your submissive partner by simulating rape doesn't seem healthy to me. It actually seems like guys that would enjoy that would enjoy actually raping someone - i.e. enjoying the control and dominance is common for actual rapists.

All the benefits without the prison time

 

[RU_]

Anyone tried Feeld?

Was just reading about it. If i find myself single again thats what i will try first up

Just an app for kinks isn’t it?

 

[I Lost My Keays]

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Sheesh. Lots of warning signs with this one!

RUN!

 

[Billy ray]

Just an app for kinks isn’t it?

Yeh. At least its get down to business.

 

[pantskyle]

I actually do too. Not cause I am a fat chick but I'm not setting the world on fire in the looks department and look even worse in photos. Lol

I've only just realised today you're a girl, is it bad that even playing GTA online with you I still thought you were a dude?

 

[Feraligatr]

I've only just realised today you're a girl, is it bad that even playing GTA online with you I still thought you were a dude?

Lol and Battlefield 1 lol

 

[pantskyle]

Lol and Battlefield 1 lol

Haha yeah, my bad.

 

[Resistor]

Awkward flirting stories ----> that way

 

[Duritz]

Yeah let’s get back to talking about rape you gamer sickos.

 

[pantskyle]

Least I now don't have weird feelings about a guy.

 

[ash_1050]

Rape and consensual non consent are two totally different things and two totally different categories.