Computers & Internet Tinder

[Wosh]

Thanks .

Most people on here are wonderful, never be afraid to reach out x

 

[Sketi]

What a dumb and ignorant post. I’m leaving it here because it such a stupid post and it needs to be called out for that.
But don’t type sh*t like this again, your advice and completely wrong opinion is not needed.

Old mate is giving unqualified health advice on bigfooty while simultaneously calling person with said issues undaetable. You're right that's pretty bad.

 

[AFDogs]

Hinge is the only app I can hold conversations with attractive girls on. Bumble and Tinder are for the tip.

 

[Perth gal]

E harmony and rsvp also pretty trash.

 

[Over The Post]

I have avoided eharmony after a quick google showed so many people being charged shitloads after cancelling their accounts and there is SFA they can do because it's a US company and ASIC / ACCC can do stuff all at this end. My ex found her new bloke on there, told her to be careful with her account. Many people wind up having to close bank accounts etc to get away from them, and then eharmony sics debt collectors on them. **** 'em.

 

[Perth gal]

I am beginning to find this out. Trying to cancel my subscription and it takes you to a email address that is no longer available. I’m going to ring the bank .

 

[Gralin]

Bloody leeches

 

[royboy2]

What about girls that play footy and cycle

I've found with girls that play footy, they are typically interested in other girls who play footy...namely my ex-wife

 

[Ligma]

I've found with girls that play footy, they are typically interested in other girls who play footy...namely my ex-wife

Ahhh poor you.

But not this girl here

 

[Over The Post]

I am beginning to find this out. Trying to cancel my subscription and it takes you to a email address that is no longer available. I’m going to ring the bank .

Important note: if you signed up for extra services (eg more replies, tokens, blah, whatever they use) you have to cancel each of those as well, before you cancel your subscription. They are extra devious and renew all those separately, and it is up to you to fight in a US court to prove that just because you cancelled your subscription and closed your account, you didn't actually want those extra services to continue.

Sorry to bring bad news, but it's their business model and they are making a metric ****ton of cash from foreigners.

 

[Millky95]

Hinge is the only app I can hold conversations with attractive girls on. Bumble and Tinder are for the tip.

My current gf (7 months) met on Hinge and being able to respond to one of her interests as a way of introducing myself went a long way into getting a date with her

 

[Scotland]

My current gf (7 months) met on Hinge and being able to respond to one of her interests as a way of introducing myself went a long way into getting a date with her

Great for you that it worked out but it's still a low percentage play. It's a good prompt/conversation starter but casting a line with the right bait is no guarantee of a bite.

 

[Gralin]

Great for you that it worked out but it's still a low percentage play. It's a good prompt/conversation starter but casting a line with the right bait is no guarantee of a bite.

maybe if you tried talking to them about their interests instead of fishing you'd have more luck

 

[faible]

maybe if you tried talking to them about their interests instead of fishing you'd have more luck

I hear women love the photos of men holding a fish.

 

[Gralin]

I hear women love the photos of men holding a fish.

no shirt and a fish, winning combo

 

[Millky95]

Great for you that it worked out but it's still a low percentage play. It's a good prompt/conversation starter but casting a line with the right bait is no guarantee of a bite.

I always felt like I had a better chance of landing a date when using apps once I could talk to the person. Hardest part was getting a match

Hinge always gave me better results compared to Tinder/Bumble

 

[Scotland]

maybe if you tried talking to them about their interests instead of fishing you'd have more luck

I'm flattered obviously but it's probably time to stop stalking me.

 

[Gralin]

I'm flattered obviously but it's probably time to stop stalking me.

trust me when I say you're not my type

 

[craigos]

Damn that was a depressing few last pages. I'm extremely happy being in my own company but I hate to imagine the amount of dogs I'll own if I become single later in my 30s/40s/50s.

 

[Scotland]

I always felt like I had a better chance of landing a date when using apps once I could talk to the person. Hardest part was getting a match

Hinge always gave me better results compared to Tinder/Bumble

100%. Just getting a conversation started is a huge part of the process. Easy to get disheartened by it but a lot of people are just never going to respond (or respond but not meaningfully engage) no matter what you say so have to keep that in mind.

Bumble app developers had the right idea with matches deleting after 24 hours without communication, but it just ends up with girls saying 'hey' then never responding after that.

 

[Poetic Justice]

Damn that was a depressing few last pages. I'm extremely happy being in my own company but I hate to imagine the amount of dogs I'll own if I become single later in my 30s/40s/50s.

I'd like to think in my head that if I became single now at 36 I'd enjoy the freedom (to an extent, have kids) - but would probably end up a lonely sook

 

[craigos]

I'd like to think in my head that if I became single now at 36 I'd enjoy the freedom (to an extent, have kids) - but would probably end up a lonely sook

I'd lend you one of my 30 dogs if you like.

 

[Scotland]

One of my mates was single for most of his 30s (been in a LTR the last 2 years) and he's easily the happiest person I know. Meanwhile I know plenty of people who have the life they want on paper (job, house, married, kids etc.) that are miserable.

 

[faible]

One of my mates was single for most of his 30s (been in a LTR the last 2 years) and he's easily the happiest person I know. Meanwhile I know plenty of people who have the life they want on paper (job, house, married, kids etc.) that are miserable.

Being comfortable and content in yourself and with your own company is very important to making you comfortable and content in a relationship IMO.

 

[Scotland]

Being comfortable and content in yourself and with your own company is very important to making you comfortable and content in a relationship IMO.

Can't agree more.

Don't want to risk the banzhammer opening up old mate's mental health can of worms from a page or two ago but you can't rely on other people to make you happy. There's a difference between being clinically depressed, unhappy with your current situation or just being good old fashioned unreasonable/unrealistic but you shouldn't rely on others to 'fix' you. Especially on dating apps which is essentially talking to strangers. Also worth noting that people who need professional help for whatever reason need professional help. Asking for trouble thinking you can 'fix' people. Can be the foundation for a toxic relationship dynamic and damaging to both parties.