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Yes indeed. The gaslighting began with the receipts it would seem.
It began from the moment he told the victim his friend missed his Uber and would be back up shortly. Then he pretended to be him.

It was one big gaslight attempt from the very start.
 

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The lack of remorse will bump this sentence up. In all of the cases I've read that had a short non parole period the accused plead guilty and "showed remorse". Surely that's subjective but whatevs.

Most of the other cases with a singular charge of rape had a non parole period of 5 years.
 
My understanding is he used it to convince the victim on matters of timing. Well before the charges were laid.

Feel free to come up with an alternative
It feels like a pretty pointless piece of semantics to argue whether he doctored evidence or doctored something that became evidence.

He clearly knew it was incriminating and he attempted to change it to make it non incriminating.

I had this chat with my girlfriend, I fail to see how they can believe their son is not guilty with the doctored Uber receipt(s)?

Like, is that not the smoking gun? Not only has he been convicted, but what reason would someone have to doctor Uber receipts if he were innocent?
Logic obviously dictates you’re right but I don’t think you can really put yourself in the mindset of Jo and Steve at the moment.

Logic and reason clearly aren’t a part of their thought process right now.
 
I had this chat with my girlfriend, I fail to see how they can believe their son is not guilty with the doctored Uber receipt(s)?

Like, is that not the smoking gun? Not only has he been convicted, but what reason would someone have to doctor Uber receipts if he were innocent?

They know.

I'm sure this isn't his first rodeo either.
 
I would argue the following:
In their conscious mind he is not guilty (denial).
Hidden away in their unconscious he is guilty AF and they are equal parts enraged with him and in despair for him.

I'm betting they've pulled him out of shit before.

Their money can't make this go away though.
 

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He'll forever be a convicted sex offender
not something you'd show off on a resume.
Yep. Absolutely agreed
Any jail term is a very big deal
It's not something to be taken lightly.
Whether it's 4 or 5 years isn't really the point.
It's a big deal either way
 
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My understanding is he used it to convince the victim on matters of timing. Well before the charges were laid.

Feel free to come up with an alternative

Why didn’t TS claim it was consensual? And the doctored receipt / claim it was his friend / lies was all an attempt to salvage the relationship with this gf / social circle?

The defence they ran with was terrible.
 
Why didn’t TS claim it was consensual? And the doctored receipt / claim it was his friend / lies was all an attempt to salvage the relationship with this gf / social circle?

The defence they ran with was terrible.

Obviously to them and his legal team it was better to just label her delusional and a liar, and judging from the comments on her social media the family has been doing just that for two years now.
 
So is being r*ped.
Ummm sure. Obviously. That goes without saying. Doesn't mean he's going to get the maximum though.

You really want to have this discussion and lecture me about rape and appropriate sentences?

Maybe stop and think a bit before mouthing off.
 
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The lack of remorse will bump this sentence up. In all of the cases I've read that had a short non parole period the accused plead guilty and "showed remorse". Surely that's subjective but whatevs.

Most of the other cases with a singular charge of rape had a non parole period of 5 years.
1. Lack of remorse (I always find this a bit weird but that's how it is)
2. Elements of dishonesty
3. Elements of pre meditation
4 Lack of insight

All factors that will likely up the sentence
 
Why didn’t TS claim it was consensual? And the doctored receipt / claim it was his friend / lies was all an attempt to salvage the relationship with this gf / social circle?

The defence they ran with was terrible.
Impossible to go with the defence of consent given the message exchanges, receipt, etc.

That’s a long time before any legal defence team got involved. Think again on terrible
 
It feels like a pretty pointless piece of semantics to argue whether he doctored evidence or doctored something that became evidence.

He clearly knew it was incriminating and he attempted to change it to make it non incriminating.
You need to re-think what was going on. He doctored the receipt in an effort to convince the victim her bf hadn’t left the house.

This was an attempt to trick her. It was a crucial piece of evidence for the prosecution.
 
You need to re-think what was going on. He doctored the receipt in an effort to convince the victim her bf hadn’t left the house.

This was an attempt to trick her. It was a crucial piece of evidence for the prosecution.
I really don’t know what this has to do with my post.

My point was two fold.

1- who really cares about whether it was evidence or not when he doctored it.
2- his intention for doctoring it was to diminish or flat out lie about what he’d done.

As you note it became crucial to the prosecution for a whole host of reasons. The original point being discussed (which is still what I’m discussing) is whether him doing that will influence his sentencing (which it should) and you (I think?) noted he didn’t doctor “evidence” because he doctored it before it became evidence.

IMO that’s a pointless piece of semantic distinction to the discussion being had.
 
There’s a lot about modern parenting that is a substantial uplift on the parents of generations gone past. This might be one that’s shifted too far though
I'm old enough to have been threatened with being whooped by the belt, but I'm young enough to not actually have been whooped by it. I don't have kids, but a lot of modern parenting leaves me scratching my head.
 

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