im not heartless but this shits me.
last week i get a wedding invite, it says 'we dont want gifts, we would prefer cash'
this week a person at works mum dies, he actually goes to the trouble of sending a message to us all saying 'we dont want flowers, we would prefer cash donations'
what the hell is this? everyone with their hand out demanding cash? i gift from the heart, i think about the presents i buy people. its all just a grab now. im owed these gifts from person a b c d and e, if i get it in cash ill come out square. its like a math equation.
ill give nothing rather than give cash.