I don't know anything about you apart from movie tastes, but are you likely to die in a war?No idea, couldnt care less honestly, they can play awful one hit wonders for all I care if they so please.
I think this depends a lot on how you die, when you die, if your parents are still alive, etc. ie. if you die young from suicide, there are lots of angst/closet songs to pick.
If you are outlived by your parents, there are plenty songs to be picked.
If you die in war, etc, many songs to pick.
The list goes on.