When my mum died i had a hard time thinking of what music to play (or suggestions, there was dad and my brothers and her family to work it out). But in the end we found the right music. It has made me start thinking of music for dad's funeral, even though he is fighting fit.
It's a big thing I reckon. Respect to the dead and also a massive insight into who they were.
Mine will or should be a pearl jam song, maybe finish with Wendy Matthews, fu** I love this song.