
Ok so if they are not interested in this, then what is it that they want?
Unfortunately, society dictates that there is a need for money to live. I wish that wasn't the case but at present there is a need to work to earn money to therefore survive. I have a 22 year old and 19 year old. Neither finished school because there were better things to do with their time. And they have then struggled to understand why keeping employment if you don't follow the rules of the company is quite difficult to do.
I've found almost an expectation that everything is easy to attain. That the idea of working hard shouldn't be a requirement to earn as much as someone who has been working for 30 years. There should be immediate reward. Things will just happen.
I've worked in education for 20 years. The change in attitude has been dramatic. Less expectation to follow rules, little backing by home, a process where excuses are made for behaviour for years only to find when these young men decide to get trades or employment to leave school, no one will take them. And this isn't all of them. But that number that would have been a small amount 30 years ago has increased in size.
Young men have been influenced by a new environment. Social media, podcasts etc have had such an impact on their growth and understanding and place in the world. And you can see it even on BF when comments about white guys being blamed for all of societies ills.
Shit I'm a white middle aged guy. I know my privilege. I know I've been lucky. I also know I'm not 'responsible' for the ills of the world. But understand and respect the history of society to understand that white guys have had it pretty ****ing good.
Basically now there are enough people with podcasts or whatever who will tell someone what they want to hear if they are unhappy with their lives and want to blame it on external factors.
There are often legit reasons which do hold people back, but being a young white male finding people who will tell them that they aren’t getting everything they want because of the woke/DEI/trans/women etc of the world is disingenuous and detrimental to society.