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The Old Dark Navy's said:
7 months is a lifetime at that age mate, so no ridiculing should take place. Most people are commenting because they have been there, and when they think back on it they feel a little humiliated they allowed themselves to become so desperate.

It's heart vs head mate, and at that age, unless you are a major player already, the heart wins out, and can not face cutting her loose, just in case there is the slightest chance that she still wants you and your actions drive her away.

Right now, you are thinking about her all the time, hanging out for a moment with her, putting yourself into a holding pattern, while she is doing ... what exactly? Thinking of you? Missing you? Working out her issues so she can come back to you? Does she have friends? Is she hanging out with them? If so, why isn't she hanging out with you?

The others are right. Be brave, try to move on and portray to her the image of you moving on. It might wake her up.

Whatever her issues are, surely a boyfriend that loves her and she supposedly loves, would be the first person she would turn to for support, not cut loose.

Make arrangements to go out with mates. Text her and tell her you are going out that night. If she says she is going out, say 'cool, have fun.' Seriously, 99% of chicks don't want a guy who makes it too easy for them. He isn't much of a catch if they don't have to work for it.
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Thank you.
 
You're 18 soon enough, you do not want a gf when you are 18.

My plan has been to stay single till I've messed around with numerous girls and travelled. Worked a treat so far :thumbsu:
 
r dub 19 said:
You're 18 soon enough, you do not want a gf when you are 18.

My plan has been to stay single till I've messed around with numerous girls and travelled. Worked a treat so far :thumbsu:
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This.

But hes made the sole mistake any young man can make.. Get attached to your first love at a young age.. Now your trapped and and stuck in love with a girl at the worst age possible.

Trust me, its happened to me.
 

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Jordan... said:
This.

But hes made the sole mistake any young man can make.. Get attached to your first love at a young age.. Now your trapped and and stuck in love with a girl at the worst age possible.

Trust me, its happened to me.
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yep same here.......killed me at the time.
 
kwame said:
yep same here.......killed me at the time.
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me too :mad:
seriously mj, apply what these guys are saying; cut the cord. if you're finding it too hard find someone to give you the emotional support to go through with the decision.
i went through a breakup of a 7-year relationship a few years ago and would've been played like a fine violin if not for a strong mate giving me a stiff slap whenever i started to bitch-out :)
 
MJ... Dude, been there before, at that age (7 years ago).

She gave me the whole "I just don't think I'm ready for a relationship", followed by "I Can't see myself in a meaningful relationship for at least 5 years", so she played the line it was nothing personal. I told her that was fine and messaged a friend saying "She walked, but I will win because she has dug herself a huge hole", message went to the lass, not the friend, which was good for a laugh. Deep down I was crushed and wanted to believe her.

6 weeks later she was in a relationship with a guy who lived over an hour away, spending nights on end at his place.

Girls lie. Get used to it, it only becomes more and more transparent as you age.

Hopefully you are in the .54% of guys who live happily ever after with 'the' girl. But the world we live in tends to dictate you are better off man-whoring it up on the party scene and living your life.
 
got ditched over the phone- While I was at a wedding. Absolutely gutted and I went a long way to healing myself throughout the reception.

All for the better now because she turned out to be a massive dero **** who moved in with a bloke less than a month after and has since broken up with him, while I have been in a long term relationship with a girl I went to school with.
 
got ditched recently by a chick.......said i was holding back, may be some truth to that told me to call her when i was ready to give 100% of myself. deleted her number no hard feelings towards her just cant do that with a chick i cared a bit about. months apart means sex with other guys....not something i want to deal with
 
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found this humerous
 
6 days in without talking to her and this is horrible :thumbsd: Seeing her around, knowing that i could go up to her, speak to her, see her smile with so little effort. It sucks :(
 

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magic_johnson! said:
6 days in without talking to her and this is horrible :thumbsd: Seeing her around, knowing that i could go up to her, speak to her, see her smile with so little effort. It sucks :(
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I'm sure it does but your doing the right thing. Stay strong and just hang out with mates and do other things to keep you distracted.
 
magic_johnson! said:
6 days in without talking to her and this is horrible :thumbsd: Seeing her around, knowing that i could go up to her, speak to her, see her smile with so little effort. It sucks :(
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Head up mate. I'm a few weeks in and already am starting to feel better.

Keeping busy is the best thing, I mean I went and saw Twilight the other day to keep myself busy. Now thats a bad breakup!
 
frantelle said:
Head up mate. I'm a few weeks in and already am starting to feel better.

Keeping busy is the best thing, I mean I went and saw Twilight the other day to keep myself busy. Now thats a bad breakup!
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so, you turned gay?
 

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My sisters current boyfriend got dumped at a wake (thing after a funeral). Her reasoning was that he wouldnt get angry or cause a scene. She was wrong apparantly :D
 
Thinking about going to her soon and officially ending it. She's had her chance to come to me, she hasn't taken it. She's shown that she doesn't want me so it'll be better for both of us i feel to have some closure.

...and then go back to the ice out. :p
 
magic_johnson! said:
Thinking about going to her soon and officially ending it. She's had her chance to come to me, she hasn't taken it. She's shown that she doesn't want me so it'll be better for both of us i feel to have some closure.

...and then go back to the ice out. :p
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It's clear it has "offcially ended". Don't even bother.
 
magic_johnson! said:
I don't think i have portrayed it quite well then as there's still some foggyness about the matter.
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In your mind or her mind?
If in your mind its over then there is no need to contact her again, sounds like your doing better, perhaps its just time to put it all behind you for good
 

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