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I think there's several layers to it.

There are certain things that can and will cause certain reactions in people who have experienced trauma. You cannot know what will 'trigger' that reaction in you until it happens.

When I first discovered the SRP, I was unemployed, in around my third year of being unemployed. I stumbled onto the politics part of this forum, and opened a series of different threads; one of those threads was the Dole thread. After reading a few pages, I read a post that had me absolutely livid, beyond angry and into sheer fury. Bear in mind, if that poster had said what they had posted to my face in that moment, I was sufficiently angry enough for something to have ensued from it that I didn't know could happen from merely someone's words. I also from time to time experience panic attacks, during which I cannot see and have trouble breathing, based upon things that happen to me (events, conversations).

Now, is it the responsibility of this forum or others in my life to keep me from material that might trigger this kind of reaction? Not really; it's my responsibility to know what triggers me. But to an extent other people within society need to be fully cognisant that some subjects or some opinions need to be shared sparingly or in private to prevent adverse reactions.

There's a girl in a class I teach who has an adverse reaction to male raised voices. I was not aware of this or why it's the case until I was told by another teacher; in the time since, I have completely modified my behaviour towards her, and have completely altered her attitude towards me.

There's a meeting of both sides of it that I think needs be understood. You are responsible for remaining clear of what you know triggers you, but so too are other people careful with things that might potentially trigger other people. If someone has a spontaneous reaction to something near them, treat them with as much kindness as you can whilst calming them down.