Family & Relationships Creepy?

[MrsEddieBetts]

Depends how you approach the initial contact. If you do it in a really open and honest way ("I was kicking myself that I didn't get your number") then she might think it's really sweet. I know a guy who was in a similar situation to this and it worked out alright for him in the end, he got a couple of dates out of it.

 

[La Vache]

Yep, call her and give it to her straight.

I'm … I spoke to you awhile at … the other night, I wanted your number but you had left when I got back. You told me you liked … so I looked you up and found your number, do you want to have a drink with me?

She can take it or leave it. Nothing creepy about it.

I mean, think about it in the context of dating these days. It's nothing like getting a dozen messages from complete strangers who think you look like they would like to * you, and can see how far away you are from them.

At least there has been some sort of discourse in the first place.

 

[TheFreshBanana]

What's the hobby?

 

[GPW1]

just tell her you are a secret agent so tracking down a phone number is a piece of piss.

 

[peternorth]

if you do call her i think it would be wise to get a prepaid number, or better still a skype account

 

[Silent Alarm]

Nothing to lose. Either you never call and nothing ever happens, or you text and she finds it weird and you never even see her again. Or she's reciprocal. I've done some weird... experimental s**t, mostly pissed, and managed to get girls interested enough. Depends really.

 

[IQ3]

Find her facebook account and if you have a mutual friend say you randomly stumbled upon her off a friends profile.

End of the day if she likes you doesn't matter how you initiate contact, if she doesn't well it will be creepy to her.

 

[Bunk Moreland]

Texted her...



















No reply

I'LL NEVER LOVE AGAIN

 

[Resistor]

creep

 

[Bunk Moreland]

creep

But I was so smooth!

 

[Resistor]

But I was so smooth!

How long have you waited? 15mins?

 

[iluvparis]

Is the network down?

Maybe her phone is flat

Maybe she is driving

Maybe she's at the movies

NOBODY PANIC!!!!!!!!!!1

 

[treefingers]

What did you write?

 

[IQ3]

bad move in hindsight

 

[Bunk Moreland]

bad move in hindsight

Foresight, too.

Ah well never see her again

 

[peternorth]

maybe she lost your number

 

[rocker_oz33]

Send another text the first one might of hit a bird,blackspot in the network.
Its not that creepy have a crack.

 

[Plugger35]

Text her this song.

 

[IQ3]

Send another text the first one might of hit a bird,blackspot in the network.
Its not that creepy have a crack.

I agree, blackspot in the network. Give it another crack!!

 

[Shell]

What's the hobby?

I keep coming into this dam thread just to find out.

I leave disappointed each time.

 

[Shell]

And am sorry Bunks.

 

[TheFreshBanana]

Should send another text to confirm if she received the text or not

 

[TheFreshBanana]

But tell us the hobby beforehand

 

[kanye_best]

follow this man's example

 

[kfc1]

Need to follow up with the BACCS-certified "pls respond"