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- Jul 11, 2017
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Can anyone of you civilised and sensitive Essendon people assist?
My partner’s mother has just died. The notices are being put in the paper. We’ve been together 5 years and it’s committed but we are not married. Before my time Partner was married for 17 years and has young adult kids.
Question is: she is not my mother in law. So, in the death notices it just just wrong to say ‘loved mother law’ of me because we aren’t married and she’s not my mother in law.
Is there another term?
I haven’t been around that long and I don’t want to be insensitive to the ex or the kids. Should I just stay out of it? It never occurred to me that I would be mentioned in the paper. But the question has been asked and I don’t know the answer. I’m not sure there is one.
I want to be respectful. This is not about me but at the same time I am my partners significant other.
It’s tricky. Any help or advice would be appreciated!
My partner’s mother has just died. The notices are being put in the paper. We’ve been together 5 years and it’s committed but we are not married. Before my time Partner was married for 17 years and has young adult kids.
Question is: she is not my mother in law. So, in the death notices it just just wrong to say ‘loved mother law’ of me because we aren’t married and she’s not my mother in law.
Is there another term?
I haven’t been around that long and I don’t want to be insensitive to the ex or the kids. Should I just stay out of it? It never occurred to me that I would be mentioned in the paper. But the question has been asked and I don’t know the answer. I’m not sure there is one.
I want to be respectful. This is not about me but at the same time I am my partners significant other.
It’s tricky. Any help or advice would be appreciated!