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LOL! Happens in the U.S., too. When I was a full-time newspaper reporter in a couple of cities, after interviewing people on the phone and then meeting them for the first time in person, more than a few times I saw and heard them tell me this, face-to-face:
"Wow. You don't sound black on the phone."
Maybe, because of their limited exposure to African-Americans, they expected me to sound like these guys:
When in reality, I sound more like this guy:
But even sounding like the last guy, I used to get patronizing compliments, like people telling me, "your diction is excellent." As if by being well-spoken, I was defying their expectations.
There was once a time I'd get upset about incidents like that. Now I laugh, realizing it's not my problem — it's the problem of the people who'd make the statements, because they were so limited in their thinking.
I get where you're coming from. I have been told more than once, "gee, I would never have guessed. You don't look like a lesbian." What is exactly does a lesbian look like?