This shows that you are entirely unable to display the most human of emotions; empathy. Your experience is not anyone else's. It is unbelievably precious of you to presume that you can definitively decide what is a reasonable reaction for people who have experiences you refuse to acknowledge. Your psuedo-intellectual posts in this thread represent the worst of Australian attitudes.If you're allowing a flippant word to set you off on a downward spiral of emotions then you most definitely have mental issues.