Then you thought wrong. No way I'm going into too much detail on here thou.
You're second paragraph I half get and sort of relate. What do you mean by stable friendship? Does family count or are you talking about long standing friendship? Forming relationships?
s**t you're third paragraph is pretty blunt. You say you can't plan your life been miserable. Yes you can. Sure you don't want to be miserable 24-7 but the happiness concept is a wank few people can afford. Those just focused on survival need to do just that and live according to the circumstance they find themselves in.
I find I have accepted it, you take each day as it comes.
I am here only because I refuse to hurt the fee people who still care, and or rely on me. Friends abandon you because they don't know how, or don't want to deal with your depression.
Eventually, you could end up a hermit. The best thing to do is to make the most of a bad situation. Try to find people who are willing to make an effort for you, and don't bother with those that aren't.
For me, that means less than a handful of people, however it is a big risk, because if those few go bad, the issues multiply.
Try counselling, try anti depressants, hopefully they will work wonders for some.
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