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What are your thoughts on people who cheat or people who get cheated on. Lucky that I've never had a nasty experience with cheating but I'm a bit undecided where cheating sits in a relationship.
 
Originally posted by carlyp
Cheat= DUMPED!
Once you break that trust its very hard to get it back and it doesnt deserve to be given back either!
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Agreed.

I told my gf from the very start that if it ever happened, there would be no going back, and she feels the same.

So I 'hope' I wont have to face that anyway :)
 
Trust is a hard concept to work out. Obviously cheating breaks all trust in a relationship but your actions over time can try and get trust back to an acceptable level.
 

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Originally posted by Rohan_
Trust is a hard concept to work out. Obviously cheating breaks all trust in a relationship but your actions over time can try and get trust back to an acceptable level.
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I dont think I could look my gf in the eye properly again if she betrayed my trust....
 
Many things can happen in a relationship. As the relationship progresses you may tell your partner more about hidden secrets. i will except most things as you can't tell some-one you are learning to trust everything at once.

But cheating is a no no. Look till your hearts content and enjoy the perve, but once you touch - that's it.

I would prefer to be told that they have feelings for someone else or find themselves wanting to play around - leave me and then do just don't cheat then tell me.
 
Originally posted by TheMase


I dont think I could look my gf in the eye properly again if she betrayed my trust....
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Granted.

People have different perception of trust depending on who they are. Normally I've picked up that people with low esteem and lacking of some character easily forgive those who betrayed their trust.

How attached you are to that person also affects how forgiving you are of someone who has betrayed your trust.
 
It deppends on the chick really. If we were only got out for less than 3 or 4 months, I would probably dump her. But if it's longer and I really like the girl, hopefully we could sort through our problems and I will allow only 1 more chance.

As I said, it really deppends on the chick!
 
yeh same, wouldn't look at them in the same way again and would keep thinking about that other person they were with!
and if it was me cheatin i dont think i could stay in the relationship knowin that i had anyway.

i suppose it would also come down to whether it was a one off thing or they had feelings for another person.

A mate of mine (same age as me almost) is a **** head. He has been with his girl for years livin with her engaged and everythin and when we went clubbing he screwed this scragger in the carpark. Wasn't a one off thing either and this girl had like 4 **** buddys at this one club. I said to him why do you do this to your girlfriend, his response was 'she wouldn't like it but would give me another chance if she found out anyway so then i would stop' pfft not to mention the feral doesn't use protection and is bringing home all the germs to her!
 
I caught my partner cheating once. I was shocked and dismayed that she would stoop to that level. But trust and honesty had taken us so far in our relationship, so I decided that if she put the money, the hotels and the 'Get Out Of Jail Free' card back in the bank, then I'd let her keep Trafalgar Square and get on with the game.
 
Originally posted by Danny Chook Fan Club
I caught my partner cheating once. I was shocked and dismayed that she would stoop to that level. But trust and honesty had taken us so far in our relationship, so I decided that if she put the money, the hotels and the 'Get Out Of Jail Free' card back in the bank, then I'd let her keep Trafalgar Square and get on with the game.
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LOL :D :D
 
Originally posted by Danny Chook Fan Club
I caught my partner cheating once. I was shocked and dismayed that she would stoop to that level. But trust and honesty had taken us so far in our relationship, so I decided that if she put the money, the hotels and the 'Get Out Of Jail Free' card back in the bank, then I'd let her keep Trafalgar Square and get on with the game.
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LMAO :D :D
 
Originally posted by Danny Chook Fan Club
I caught my partner cheating once. I was shocked and dismayed that she would stoop to that level. But trust and honesty had taken us so far in our relationship, so I decided that if she put the money, the hotels and the 'Get Out Of Jail Free' card back in the bank, then I'd let her keep Trafalgar Square and get on with the game.
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ROFL!! :D :D
 

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Cheating is really bad, although my gf is a natural blonde (quite blonde in fact) but if she was cheating on a hot brunette it would be ok if i could join in anyway...then I get the best of both worlds!
 
heheheh - Thats why i am single right now, cos i always want to kiss other boys than the one i am supposed to be with!!! :D

I'd rather that than cheat, cos what goes around comes around!
 
Originally posted by Danny Chook Fan Club
I caught my partner cheating once. I was shocked and dismayed that she would stoop to that level. But trust and honesty had taken us so far in our relationship, so I decided that if she put the money, the hotels and the 'Get Out Of Jail Free' card back in the bank, then I'd let her keep Trafalgar Square and get on with the game.
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You've got a heart of gold sir.
 
from my own personal experience ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!! You never ever regain that element of trust. THe relationship as it was is truly over and will never be the same again. In my opinion, if someone cheats then the relationship is on a downward path. You have to known when to cut your losses.
 

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