Education & Reference Coincidence

[Thegibbsgamble]

As in my subconscious mind is predicting things

Like at footy on Saturday, next to where my home ground is there is a toy plane flying club or whatever. So there's always people flying planes there every single day.

Now never has an opponent asked me or mention it to me. Even tho it's quite annoying if not used to it.

But this particular day, my subconscious sort of played out the conversation early in the game. You know how you play out a conversation before it happens when you know you're going to speak to that person, etc.

But this time I never knew I would speak to that person.


What do you know, late in the game my opponent asks me about it....


Then tonight. My grandpa is over. Once again, more consciously tho. I randomly thought, he'll ask me about THIS (I won't disclose what it is). It's something that he might have asked me about 5 times in my entire life. Just odd that I would predict it like that.


Then against later tonight. Not sure how we got to this topic. But I was joking with a mate and mention the porno where Ava Addams puts a banana in her arse. And my mate goes, "WTF dude! I saw that vid today for the first time". I was pretty shocked as I saw the video probs 4 years ago and have never mention it to anyone. Then today my mate sees it and I randomly mention it to him on that EXACT DAY


what are the chances

Your mate is gaslighting you

You've probably thought about the toy plane thing twenty times. Just not rememberd it.

 

[LicoriceAllsorts]

Your mate is gaslighting you

You've probably thought about the toy plane thing twenty times. Just not rememberd it.

I highly doubt that. He DOWNLOADED the video. Not to mention he doesn't do that kind of humour.


The plane flying thing particularly stood out for a reason.

Going to school there and playing footy, being at that complex. During school I'd be there 100 times a year, and since school finished 3 times a week during winter every year. Always fckn planes flying. So when I started going there in year 10, I'd make passing mention of it, and it was new to other people too. But eventually everyone goes numb to it and doesn't even notice it. Never have I talked or even thought about it in years. But still seeing it every time I'm there during the day. Then randomly this day my mind subconsciously plays out a conversation with my opponent and then that actually eventuates later in the game. Very odd indeed

 

[exe ex machina]

That always happens anyway. It's a phenomenon. Where you think about something, a book or TV show or car, and suddenly you see it or something to do with it. Or think about someone and suddenly they call on the phone.

 

[LicoriceAllsorts]

That always happens anyway. It's a phenomenon. Where you think about something, a book or TV show or car, and suddenly you see it or something to do with it. Or think about someone and suddenly they call on the phone.

That's the point of this thread

 

[exe ex machina]

That's the point of this thread

Wow what a coincidence then!

 

[Thegibbsgamble]

I highly doubt that. He DOWNLOADED the video. Not to mention he doesn't do that kind of humour.


The plane flying thing particularly stood out for a reason.

Going to school there and playing footy, being at that complex. During school I'd be there 100 times a year, and since school finished 3 times a week during winter every year. Always fckn planes flying. So when I started going there in year 10, I'd make passing mention of it, and it was new to other people too. But eventually everyone goes numb to it and doesn't even notice it. Never have I talked or even thought about it in years. But still seeing it every time I'm there during the day. Then randomly this day my mind subconsciously plays out a conversation with my opponent and then that actually eventuates later in the game. Very odd indeed

Two points.

Mates do gaslight. They're trying to maintain connection. I could be wrong but its documented in pychology

It's about like when women ask di thier arse look big in these jeans. You're not allowed to say yes but it's firm which indicates someone screwing you properly


In the plane thing. Well I do know exactly what you mean.


You see I worked with a chick and we had deep feelings towards each other but she was only visiting town.

She was doing a course and one afternoon she announced it had been put back a few weeks so she was staying longer

All morning before this announcement I was constantly thinking please hurry up and leave your presence is so painful. Get this over with quick

It's something that kept coming into my thoughts.

 

[LicoriceAllsorts]

Two points.

Mates do gaslight. They're trying to maintain connection. I could be wrong but its documented in pychology

It's about like when women ask di thier arse look big in these jeans. You're not allowed to say yes but it's firm which indicates someone screwing you properly


In the plane thing. Well I do know exactly what you mean.


You see I worked with a chick and we had deep feelings towards each other but she was only visiting town.

She was doing a course and one afternoon she announced it had been put back a few weeks so she was staying longer

All morning before this announcement I was constantly thinking please hurry up and leave your presence is so painful. Get this over with quick

It's something that kept coming into my thoughts.

I'm unsure what you mean by gaslighting? As in you think he was leading me on?

 

[exe ex machina]

I'm unsure what you mean by gaslighting? As in you think he was leading me on?

Even if he was, it's still whoa that he'd bring up Ava Adams. Unless he already knew about it.

 

[exe ex machina]

Knew about you liking that video from another friend I mean

 

[LicoriceAllsorts]

I hate the video, he downloaded it

 

[LicoriceAllsorts]

Actually reading the conversation again he was freaking out more than I was. That I mentioned it. He probably thought I was reading his mind or something