I don't think that's been the message.
"All men need to help" is the message I've seen. "Men need to do better" - as a group we do, even if individuals are doing their best.
Sorry, I left out the context, I was responding specifically to this suggestion from page 1 (which then got debated for a page or two):
Who would oppose "all men need to reduce their violence against women"? And why?