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Unwanted Pregnancy Advice

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Mojo said:
Apologies, guys.

So, my daughter was born premature on 1st of January.

Since then, I decided that anything that might affect her negatively, I've tried to let go.

I still feel emotional, however, holding onto those feelings wasn't sustainable, and certainly isn't something I want my daughter to be exposed to.

We had a paternity test last week; I got to meet and hold her for the first time. She does sort of look like me - sorry, kiddo.

There'll no doubt be challenges ahead, however, if I can rise above them, I'll perhaps be content that at least I won't feel guilty by my own actions/behaviour.

Thanks for everyone's interest and support over the past several months.

Much love.
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How long before the test comes back? If she is yours all you can do is love her and be the best Dad you can be
 
Run n Spread said:
In answer to your question. Yes. Some women do want a baby that badly. Put it another way a woman's instinct to want a kid is as strong as a man's want to ####.
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Witnessed this recently. I know a guy and some of his friends were saying his GF just wanted to marry him to have a baby.

They got married about 2 years ago, had a baby and she left him before the baby had even turned 2.
 
revo333 said:
Witnessed this recently. I know a guy and some of his friends were saying his GF just wanted to marry him to have a baby.

They got married about 2 years ago, had a baby and she left him before the baby had even turned 2.
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How can they know that? 🤔
 

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revo333 said:
Witnessed this recently. I know a guy and some of his friends were saying his GF just wanted to marry him to have a baby.

They got married about 2 years ago, had a baby and she left him before the baby had even turned 2.
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Hope he de invested.
Than let's see how that works out.
 
Mojo how's it going? I interpretted before that the paternity test came back yours? But than you said later it was 10 days?
Didnyou get a result.
If positive how is it working out?
 
The chances of getting pregnant from a one-off fling at 45 are astronomically low.

Either the OP isn't telling us the whole story, or the woman is blatantly LYING (or both) imho.

The monthly chance of pregnancy in a woman aged 30 is about 20%. By age 40 it’s less than 5% and by age 45 the chance is negligible.

- K Hammarberg, Adjunct Senior Research Fellow, Global and Women's Health, School of Public Health & Preventive Medicine, Monash University

If a legit paternity test was done, and it came back that he was the father, that is brutal for OP.

But if he were foolish enough to fall for the 'oopsie' in the first place, I wouldn't be surprised if he were foolish enough to fall for a dodgy paternity test as well.
 

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Hey guys,

I realise I left this thread without answering a few questions, sorry.

Just firstly, thank you for everyone's support - I'm always a little embarrassed for starting this thread, but desperate times - desperate measures, I suppose.

So, the paternity tests confirmed she was my daughter - she's almost 10 months old now. She's amazing.

My relationship with her mum has been as amacable as possible, and though there are still residual emotions, I don't allow them to surface.

Within any challenge comes the opportunity for growth, and that's the mindset I've tried to adopt.
 
mouncey2franklin said:
The chances of getting pregnant from a one-off fling at 45 are astronomically low.

Either the OP isn't telling us the whole story, or the woman is blatantly LYING (or both) imho.

The monthly chance of pregnancy in a woman aged 30 is about 20%. By age 40 it’s less than 5% and by age 45 the chance is negligible.

- K Hammarberg, Adjunct Senior Research Fellow, Global and Women's Health, School of Public Health & Preventive Medicine, Monash University

If a legit paternity test was done, and it came back that he was the father, that is brutal for OP.

But if he were foolish enough to fall for the 'oopsie' in the first place, I wouldn't be surprised if he were foolish enough to fall for a dodgy paternity test as well.
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Hey mate,

I was foolish to allow this to happen - I hope my experience can act as a reminder for anyone reading this thread to take the necessary precautions.

Thanks for posting.
 

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