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Virginity. My cousin is 24 years old and still hasn't shagged, and is rather nervous cause she's been with her man for over six months (yes he's still there). So, two things:

Any tips for 'first timers'??

Boys, do you prefer a girl that you really like/care about to be experienced or not??

Discuss please gang...!


:D
 
Originally posted by Blues Angel
Virginity. My cousin is 24 years old and still hasn't shagged, and is rather nervous cause she's been with her man for over six months (yes he's still there). So, two things:

Any tips for 'first timers'??

Boys, do you prefer a girl that you really like/care about to be experienced or not??

Discuss please gang...!
:D
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probrably prefer a girl with experience, they know what to do and how to do it. That's why we all love MILF'S.
An inexperienced girl who doesn't know how to get a guy going is a turnoff.
 
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Originally posted by Renegade
probrably prefer a girl with experience, they know what to do and how to do it. That's why we all love MILF'S.
An inexperienced girl who doesn't know how to get a guy going is a turnoff.
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That's interesting, I mean she knows most certainly how to get her man 'going' (no details necessary) but just is nervous about getting into bed. She is really shy about how she looks sans clothes and that's holding her back. She wants to do it but is scared he will look at her the next day and think she's a dog.
 
sounds like a typical woman, worrying about nothing.
He's had 6 months to decide whether she's a dog or not
 

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If he's been with her six months yet wakes up the next morning after a shagging and thinks she's a dog, then that's pretty poor form. I don't think she has much to worry about there. He knows she's a virgin right? Well he would probably know what to expect then.
 
Originally posted by Renegade
sounds like a typical woman, worrying about nothing.
He's had 6 months to decide whether she's a dog or not
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That's true actually, and odds are that if he's waited this long and she still isn't quite ready then he will probably wait a bit more. I agree with carlyp though, if she's still nervous about it then maybe she isn't ready.

As for worrying about her body.......again, he's waited 6 months to be intimate with her, it should be obvious that he loves her and she really shouldn't worry about it. I get the same way sometimes, but it REALLY isn't something to worry about!!!!!!
 
Originally posted by daicos4ever
If he's been with her six months yet wakes up the next morning after a shagging and thinks she's a dog, then that's pretty poor form. I don't think she has much to worry about there. He knows she's a virgin right? Well he would probably know what to expect then.
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Here's the thing, he DOESN'T know that she's 'inexperienced' cause they really haven't discussed their past relationships - which would be for her two ********s she picked up and didn't last a week.

She has the idea that if she's smashed enough she will lose all the inhibitions that have caused her all this grief. Isn't that the case for everyone though ?

:D

And she really doesn't want to blow her cover, so to speak, by using ky. Dead giveaway. So she's really stuck. My advice, do what I do and just get annihalated beforehand. Then I woke up the next day and only remembered the good bits.
 
Originally posted by Blues Angel
Here's the thing, he DOESN'T know that she's 'inexperienced' cause they really haven't discussed their past relationships - which would be for her two ********s she picked up and didn't last a week.

She has the idea that if she's smashed enough she will lose all the inhibitions that have caused her all this grief. Isn't that the case for everyone though ?

:D

And she really doesn't want to blow her cover, so to speak, by using ky. Dead giveaway. So she's really stuck. My advice, do what I do and just get annihalated beforehand. Then I woke up the next day and only remembered the good bits.
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What?? She has to tell him that she's a virgin!!! So he knows not to be so rough with her! Itd be a big big mistake if she doesnt tell him that it'll be her first time!
 

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Originally posted by carlyp
What?? She has to tell him that she's a virgin!!! So he knows not to be so rough with her! Itd be a big big mistake if she doesnt tell him that it'll be her first time!
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I know I know but she's afraid she'll lose him.. Anyway she is planning, as I said earlier, to get totally smashed one night, get 'ready' (so to speak) and then just slurr to him that she 'isn't that experienced, so be gentle' and hope that works.

But he's a really nice guy so I don't think he'd be rough with her anyway. Especially their first time together. But you can never tell..
 
Originally posted by Blues Angel
I know I know but she's afraid she'll lose him.. Anyway she is planning, as I said earlier, to get totally smashed one night, get 'ready' (so to speak) and then just slurr to him that she 'isn't that experienced, so be gentle' and hope that works.

But he's a really nice guy so I don't think he'd be rough with her anyway. Especially their first time together. But you can never tell..
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Hey if he dumps her because she's still a virgin then he aint the right sort of bloke anyway. I can still see your point. Her plan sounds great with every other respect and if she is really hell bent on not telling him then the plan sounds alright!
 
Originally posted by carlyp
Hey if he dumps her because she's still a virgin then he aint the right sort of bloke anyway. I can still see your point. Her plan sounds great with every other respect and if she is really hell bent on not telling him then the plan sounds alright!
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Honey, that will be the best news I can tell her today. I thought that would work for her. She really doesn't want to tell him, cause she believes he will think she's a freak for being 24 y.o and still 'pure'.

: )
 
And my advice for her body fears???

Turn off the lights and the next morning, run to the bathroom and take the quilt with you!

Either that or go to a solarium for a couple of visits to lose the 'white lily' tinge

:D
 
Originally posted by Blues Angel
Honey, that will be the best news I can tell her today. I thought that would work for her. She really doesn't want to tell him, cause she believes he will think she's a freak for being 24 y.o and still 'pure'.

: )
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Well thats great news then. Tell her I said good luck and have fun! :D
Your advice for her body fears is great too :)
 
Originally posted by Blues Angel
Honey, that will be the best news I can tell her today. I thought that would work for her. She really doesn't want to tell him, cause she believes he will think she's a freak for being 24 y.o and still 'pure'.
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Yeah but you say he's nice and he's obviously waited so long for her which should tell her something!!!!!!!! I think she should tell him BEFORE time and WITHOUT being drunk, because he may actually have worked it out already and might just be waiting for her to tell him.

I don't see why it's something she should be embarrassed about. She ISN'T a freak, and who's to say he won't like the idea of being her first. ;)
 

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Originally posted by lioness22

I don't see why it's something she should be embarrassed about. She ISN'T a freak, and who's to say he won't like the idea of being her first. ;)
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Hmmm, didn't think of it that way....
Who knows what she's going to do??? I just wish her well whatever she decides, but me thinks it will be the drunken admission route.

She is really shy and quiet (don't know what side of the family she got THAT from) so this will be a big event when it happens...
 
Originally posted by carlyp
Its a big event when it happens for everyone :)
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:eek: Oh yes, I know, but for her it will be extra big. She got the **** paid out of her during high school and didn't think she was good enough to get a man, now she has a really nice one and all she needs to do know is...'the horizontal monkey dance'

he's a real sweetie though, sends her text messages all the time and everyone thinks they are great as a couple.

god makes me envious!
 
Originally posted by Blues Angel
:eek: Oh yes, I know, but for her it will be extra big. She got the **** paid out of her during high school and didn't think she was good enough to get a man, now she has a really nice one and all she needs to do know is...'the horizontal monkey dance'

he's a real sweetie though, sends her text messages all the time and everyone thinks they are great as a couple.

god makes me envious!
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Awwwwwww thats sweet :D:D
I hope they are very happy and continue to be happy!
:D:D:D
 
Originally posted by carlyp
Awwwwwww thats sweet :D:D
I hope they are very happy and continue to be happy!
:D:D:D
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do they make those sorts of men in mass volumes??

if so, how much do they cost and can i please have one??

thanks for your advice carls, you are a hon!

:D :D :D :D
 
Originally posted by Blues Angel
do they make those sorts of men in mass volumes??

if so, how much do they cost and can i please have one??

thanks for your advice carls, you are a hon!

:D :D :D :D
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I only wish they did! Id risk my inheritance on buying one actually!!!! :D:D:D:D:D:D:D
No problems, us girls have to stick together right??? :D:D
 

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