Family & Relationships Billy Ray needs some advice

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What happens to the house if you drop off

For example in our wills my share goes to my kids not my husband so as to protect them against any future step mums and her kids

In some states if you own the house in common with your partner, and live in it, it goes to the partner regardless of your will.
You are relying on them to do the right thing.