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The only one that can answer the question is you - Do you value the relationship more than the opportunity to travel?
It sounds like a classic case of meeting the right person but maybe not quite at the right time.
We've been together for 3 years, by the time this rolls around we will have been together for almost 4. I've told her I want to be single overseas not for the women side of things but just so it can be done properly. If we were to stay together; even if she isn't there with me, we'll still be in a relationship and she'll be influencing things that I do and decisions I make. I don't want that, I want 6 months of living my dream and having the trip of a lifetime. There is no way a long distance relationship could work and both would be happy for the entire time, that is completely naive. Imagine if you were to have a fight, other sides of the world, other time zones, only time you can talk to her is when you have wi-fi in a hostel - it would be a s**t fight and cause so much heartache, especially for the poor thing stuck in Australia.
It could actually be the right thing to do for your girlfriend. She's only 20 and is still developing.
However, things were just different. It was strange. Somehow the time apart just changed things. We stayed together for two months before she decided to end it, which was probably the right decision.
Moral of the story? Do what you've gotta do. She delayed it, but eventually had to do it. The same will probably happen to you. We ended on perfect terms, and it just didn't work out later. I think you need to go away expecting that it is the end of your relationship, forever.
Shave away your excuses.
I've always felt the age difference (nearly 5 years) would eventually come into play. When I'm nearing 30 and ready to settle, house etc, she's entering her party lifestyle, wanting to see the world - where I am now, basically. What if she realises there's more out there, what if she wants to experience more? I wouldn't blame her.
She tells me she's all she wants. While I believe her, she is only 20. Will be in a totally different place mentally by the time she's 25.