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There is heaps going around, I am particularly interested in hearing what the females have for themselves.

Eg:

1. First date kiss: Guys realise if they miss the first date kiss the chances of a second are minimal to none

2. First date location: Normally meet somewhere movies/dinner

3. Second date location: Somewhere more intimate, beach walk, outdoor cineemas etc

4. 3rd Date: Aim here is alone time

5. Sexual progression: 1st Date: Kiss, Second date: Kiss grope, 3rd Date: 2nd base/3rd base (Some go the whole hog here), 4th Date on: Aim here from most guys perspective is to get their end in.

6. How soon to intergrate? By this I mean when do you introduce the person your newly seeing to family/friends? I reckon matter of weeks for friends...with family months

7. To go out drinking with your date? Alcohol = Ligthening of the mood..BUT there is the thread of the "Brewers droop", disgracing yourself etc

8. Do you keep the worlds seperate? Do you bring you girlfriend with you everytime u go out socially or do you keep those two worlds seperate?

What else is there?
 
sabre_ac said:
There is heaps going around, I am particularly interested in hearing what the females have for themselves.

Eg:

1. First date kiss: Guys realise if they miss the first date kiss the chances of a second are minimal to none

2. First date location: Normally meet somewhere movies/dinner

3. Second date location: Somewhere more intimate, beach walk, outdoor cineemas etc

4. 3rd Date: Aim here is alone time
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I don't really think of dating in this way. If i really like a guy then i want to get lost in the moment so i don't do all the scientific annalysis of "the location"

sabre_ac said:
5. Sexual progression: 1st Date: Kiss, Second date: Kiss grope, 3rd Date: 2nd base/3rd base (Some go the whole hog here), 4th Date on: Aim here from most guys perspective is to get their end in.
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you've been watching too much leave it to beaver. If a girl and guy really really like each other then they will probably wait and get to know each other before they have sex. You sound like you're a 16 boy (no disrespect) who's carrying out his inexperienced plan to sleep with a girl... am i right?

sabre_ac said:
6. How soon to intergrate? By this I mean when do you introduce the person your newly seeing to family/friends? I reckon matter of weeks for friends...with family months
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whenever you want to:D


sabre_ac said:
7. To go out drinking with your date? Alcohol = Ligthening of the mood..BUT there is the thread of the "Brewers droop", disgracing yourself etc

8. Do you keep the worlds seperate? Do you bring you girlfriend with you everytime u go out socially or do you keep those two worlds seperate?

What else is there?
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You're annalysis of dating is cute but i suggest you chill a little and have fun!;) :thumbsu:
 
If a girl adheres to any of those 'rules' like a bible...she will be a massive pain the ass in the long run.

See Elliott's character from Scrubs :D
 
fugsy said:
If a girl adheres to any of those 'rules' like a bible...she will be a massive pain the ass in the long run.

See Elliott's character from Scrubs :D
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I like her character however i know what you mean she can be a little anal and uptight.
 

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nicky said:
I like her character however i know what you mean she can be a little anal and uptight.
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A little??:p

Scrubs is my favourite show. The way JD and Turk carry on in there own time (see impression of Sanford (sp?) and Son in season 1) is alot like me and my mates. :D
 
fugsy said:
A little??:p

Scrubs is my favourite show. The way JD and Turk carry on in there own time (see impression of Sanford (sp?) and Son in season 1) is alot like me and my mates. :D
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It's one of my favourites too and i just ADORE jd and turk. JD is my perfect guy- i just love him :thumbsu:
 
sabre_ac said:
There is heaps going around, I am particularly interested in hearing what the females have for themselves.

Eg:

1. First date kiss: Guys realise if they miss the first date kiss the chances of a second are minimal to none

2. First date location: Normally meet somewhere movies/dinner

What else is there?
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Remote location well away from alternative transport. If she starts to play funny buggers and looks unlikely to come across then ask her if she believes in the "hereafter".
 
I suppose a lot depends on your age and what your needs are, morals etc. I mean I have generally followed the "Rule of Seperation" You try and keep your friends, family and sexual liasons seperate.

Im generally content if you can pick something up every now and then, even every 2 or 3 weeks just to keep you ticking over, im not all that fussed. A lot of us obviously have diverse friendship groups so your actions may be dictated by who you are with when you head out.

I mean im only 21 and my philosophy is if I was in something serious, you may regret lost opportunities with others later. Wheras I have friends my age getting married, im really happy for them but part of me still cannot comprehend it at this age.

I say dating you just take it naturally and whatever happens, happens. I have often said to a girl from the get go, " Look I dont know how fast you wanna take this etc" So put the onus straight back on them. There are no guarantees, however you would like to have some runs on the board within a few dates or you are wasting time and effort, and very importantly$$$$$
 
Sheeds said:
I suppose a lot depends on your age and what your needs are, morals etc. I mean I have generally followed the "Rule of Seperation" You try and keep your friends, family and sexual liasons seperate.

Im generally content if you can pick something up every now and then, even every 2 or 3 weeks just to keep you ticking over, im not all that fussed. A lot of us obviously have diverse friendship groups so your actions may be dictated by who you are with when you head out.

I mean im only 21 and my philosophy is if I was in something serious, you may regret lost opportunities with others later. Wheras I have friends my age getting married, im really happy for them but part of me still cannot comprehend it at this age.

I say dating you just take it naturally and whatever happens, happens. I have often said to a girl from the get go, " Look I dont know how fast you wanna take this etc" So put the onus straight back on them. There are no guarantees, however you would like to have some runs on the board within a few dates or you are wasting time and effort, and very importantly$$$$$
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The Rex Hunt method :p
 

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My ex-boyfriend always insisted on paying. He was in the air force, so we hardly got to see each other (mainly weekends only) and he was cashed up. I like to pay my own way, so in the beginning it was difficult to know that he wanted to pay for everything. I guess each relationship is different, but I always offer to pay my own way, and as for intimacy - once again, every relationship is different. Just go with the flow. :thumbsu:
 
nicky said:
I don't really think of dating in this way. If i really like a guy then i want to get lost in the moment so i don't do all the scientific annalysis of "the location"

you've been watching too much leave it to beaver. If a girl and guy really really like each other then they will probably wait and get to know each other before they have sex. You sound like you're a 16 boy (no disrespect) who's carrying out his inexperienced plan to sleep with a girl... am i right?

whenever you want to:D

You're annalysis of dating is cute but i suggest you chill a little and have fun!;) :thumbsu:
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Romance is the key to everything, isn't that right nicky?
 
Haha Roosterlad nice call.

This whole "dating rules" crap is so stupid. Everyone looks into it way too much. Relax, be yourself, be honest. No need for all these rules and crap just bores you to death.
 

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ICanDressMyself said:
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This whole "dating rules" crap is so stupid. Everyone looks into it way too much. Relax, be yourself, be honest. No need for all these rules and crap just bores you to death.
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agree :thumbsu:
 
I once went on a date to Milton Keynes. We both had an awesome time.

I learned then to never pay heed to dating rules again.
 
make a note boys, on a first date keep it in your pants. it's always nice to wait for more but I guess thats for those with serious morals and beliefs.
 

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