friendship..help!

[SPUNKY_MONKEY45]

just wondering if anyone's got any good advice how to tell a friend who you know uses you but actually likes you that you don't like them....my friend and i just and still are having a huge fight and i hate it...she thinx we've made up but i don't like her..i got other groups of friendz @ skool but its still hard....i don't want to hurt her but evry1 i've mentioned it to has just sed to think about how much she had hurt me when she uses me...

 

[carlton_95]

just say you dont like him/her

 

[hawkfan5]

if they use you well tell them how you feel.

 

[lioness]

Just say it. Easiest way to go. And do it now, don't let it bug you any further coz it will just make it end even worse.

 

[hawkfan5]

Get it over and done with.

 

[Mr Ripper]

Move to another town far, far away.

 

[SPUNKY_MONKEY45]

yeh thats wot i was 1st thinking..... but it'll still cause more tention...but i am looking @ moving skools....hopefully i'll get it over and done with this week...afta i c the skool shrink..lol

 

[CIC-Twin-Bro]

tell her she is a b1tch and slap her in the face than walk off befor she can do anythink

 

[daddy_4_eyes]

I had the same problem about 3months ago. The guy always backstabbed, but we all tolerated his cr@p. One day he went too far and i just told him to heck off.

The tension at school is real bad now, but it was worth it. He no longer says ***** about me, and others have followed my lead and told him how they feel.

What goes around comes around, if she/he uses you then one day she'he will get whats coming to her/him. But when you tell her/him off, do it with dignity, don't stoop to their level.

 

[Beausgirl43]

Just tell them straight out how you feel.

Don't beat around the bush.

cheers...