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[raff23]

I'm not the only one who has experienced it. From people I've talked who use the site they say the same thing. Maybe its a Perth thing who knows. When you get to about 35 it changes though as its the guys that are in demand. And as for not doing it right you can't exactly get it wrong. Its a fairly basic site.

it depends what type of bloke the girls are looking for or the level of maturity, you gotta be smart about who you want to chat to and not just pick hot girls at random. 9 times out if 10 if you choose carefully you will get accepted.

 

[Miqar_Baqfhied]

the thing is though the stigma around dating sites remain, were you slightly embaressed to tell the folks how you met your GF? or are you and them perfectly fine with it as they should be?

Yeah to be honest I was embarressed. By my girlfriend wasnt. And when I told my mates thats how we met, it opened up a complete can of worms - everyone revealed they were on it too!

This stigma is weird. Although I was on oasis I probably I recommend RSVP. Its a paid site so the people you meet on there have to pay money to use it, and arent as dodge, and you have to put together a proper in depth profile. I wasnt really aware of rsvp when I first went online.

My decision to go on it was after I broke up with my missus of a few years. I wasnt prepared to wallow around in desperate single life and made an executive decision upon breaking up to avoid falling down to depths commonly associated with not being able to get a root. Chic sense desperation - its a vicious cycle. The hole gets deeper and deeper.

 

[Miqar_Baqfhied]

it depends what type of bloke the girls are looking for or the level of maturity, you gotta be smart about who you want to chat to and not just pick hot girls at random. 9 times out if 10 if you choose carefully you will get accepted.

Yeah conversation skills are important. You gotta say the right things at the right time and definetly not come across as desperate. And dont get offended if someone rejects or ignores you.

The key with women is simply to let them talk about themselves. It's the thing they do best.

 

[Igloo]

My decision to go on it was after I broke up with my missus of a few years. I wasnt prepared to wallow around in desperate single life and made an executive decision upon breaking up to avoid falling down to depths commonly associated with not being able to get a root. Chic sense desperation - its a vicious cycle. The hole gets deeper and deeper.

Sounds similar to my situation.

I've been thinking about joining up, but I know for a fact that a few people I know use it, and there is no way in hell I'd want anyone finding out at least until I have some sort of success
I know you can set your photo to private, but that would probably lead to less acceptance.

So due to this fact, I probably wont sign up, although there is a slight chance I will.

 

[the fly]

I wasnt prepared to wallow around in desperate single life and made an executive decision upon breaking up to avoid falling down to depths commonly associated with not being able to get a root.

There's a thread dedicated to you on this very board.

http://www.bigfooty.com/forum/threads/boyfriend-men-guys-who-seem-to-need-girlfriends.923618/

 

[Miqar_Baqfhied]

There's a thread dedicated to you on this very board.

http://www.bigfooty.com/forum/threads/boyfriend-men-guys-who-seem-to-need-girlfriends.923618/

Thats about guys needing girlfriends, not roots. Different things hombre. Girldfriends generally means less rooting. Took me another 3 years to get a girlfriend, after slaying around on Oasis for a while enjoying the single life. And Im only with her cos I want to be not cos I need to, I assure you.