Bit OT, but why do Christians want to see the cross all the time? Wouldn't that be like Port Adelaide making their team logo the number 119?
Perhaps you are not reading all the posts STC?
The cross is not a symbol of defeat or torture or failure etc, but of what Jesus on the cross achieved - victory over sin death, the devil etc. Perfectly good symbol of "success" if you understand its reality and the symbol itself.
The turning on its head of the torture device is one of the great things about the cross of Christ - what people meant for evil, God used for good and his glory (inc. Jesus glory confirmed in his resurrection), and our benefit.