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honestly, it depends what he looks like. i know it sounds a bit mean but if an ugly guy with no fashion sense wears something like a gold chain it just looks tacky and even sleazy. if an ok looking guy wears one - provided its not chunky or anything and it suits what they are wearing it can be quite nice. i personally like silver jewerlly better as i think it looks less sleazy on guys but im only 19 and thats what looks good on the type of guys i like, as i said, it really depends on what you look like and how you dress.



*** i know this sounds harsh, but my old boss at work used to wear a chain all the time and he was disgusting and gross and sleazy and just ewww so i supposed im a bit biased in that sense. but yeh as long as your not as gross as him and dont overdo it then its generally ok i guess
 

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nokiacasio, you're so far off the mark.

Your first problem is that you want to wear something to increase your attractiveness, that reeks of desperation and cluelessness.

Wearing exactly what it is that you want to wear, something that suits your personality and says the things about you that you want to say, that is clean and that fits well is attractive. Regardless of what it is.

You need some help sir.
 
superfraser said:
nokiacasio, you're so far off the mark.

Your first problem is that you want to wear something to increase your attractiveness, that reeks of desperation and cluelessness.

Wearing exactly what it is that you want to wear, something that suits your personality and says the things about you that you want to say, that is clean and that fits well is attractive. Regardless of what it is.

You need some help sir.
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nokiacasio is more on the money than you are.

How does wanting to increase attractiveness reek of desperation? In fantasy land, you wear what you want and everyone likes you for your personality. In the real world, what you wear largely determines your social value. Just by your clothes people judge if you're socially aware, if you're financially well off, if you're a fun person & worth talking to, etc.

Wearing what you want to wear isn't attractive. I like to walk around the house in sweat pants & a singlet, doesn't make me attractive to those that see me.

You're right about one thing, you wear the things that say what you want them to say about you. And accessories are one way of saying that you're an interesting (therefore attractive) person.

I'd be careful with too much gold though. Gold necklace, make sure its not gangsta thick, and wear it under your shirt rather than flaunting it (it will still peak out, so people will see it).
 
daddy_4_eyes said:
nokiacasio is more on the money than you are.

How does wanting to increase attractiveness reek of desperation? In fantasy land, you wear what you want and everyone likes you for your personality. In the real world, what you wear largely determines your social value. Just by your clothes people judge if you're socially aware, if you're financially well off, if you're a fun person & worth talking to, etc.

Wearing what you want to wear isn't attractive. I like to walk around the house in sweat pants & a singlet, doesn't make me attractive to those that see me.

You're right about one thing, you wear the things that say what you want them to say about you. And accessories are one way of saying that you're an interesting (therefore attractive) person.

I'd be careful with too much gold though. Gold necklace, make sure its not gangsta thick, and wear it under your shirt rather than flaunting it (it will still peak out, so people will see it).
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I think we're coming from a similar place sir.

Perhaps I needed to be clearer.

Looking to increase your attractiveness is a great thing! ie; reading more, travelling, keeping healthy, grooming properly.

Ignoring all of that, and posting a message on an internet forum saying "is buying a gold chain going to make me a stud?" reeks of desperation.

Now, I'm all about accessories. Personally, I like to wear thick leather wrist bands and I like piercings. Etc.

Thats me, and thats fine. I would never suggest that wearing a gold bracelet is bad... So long as it is you.

I also agree with your socially aware comments in regards to clothes and all.

Now, for me again, I stand by what I said about you should wear what you want to wear. and etc. etc. as I said before.

Because if you ARE socially aware, you're not going to want to dress in rubbish clothes that don't fit and don't match. etc. etc.

You will want to dress well.

Never do I WANT to go out to Uni or otherwise in tracksuit pants. I do love to wear them around the house. But I much perfer to look at myself in the mirror and think... "I'm looking good." as I leave.

Call me vein or whatever you want. I'll happily agree.

I don't think that being vein is better then being ignorant. (daddy4eyes - i'm not directing this at you, but at the slew of people I'd expect to follow up my post.)
 
So jewellery is necessary because of social class?

The problem with, say, a watch like a Rolex is that if I buy one for $20,000 there's a good chance that when I sell it I'd sell it for less, say, $15,000 and therefore I lose $5,000.

Is there any status symbol that doesn't lose value as much? E.g. what if I carry around a bar of gold?
 
nokiacasio said:
So jewellery is necessary because of social class?

The problem with, say, a watch like a Rolex is that if I buy one for $20,000 there's a good chance that when I sell it I'd sell it for less, say, $15,000 and therefore I lose $5,000.

Is there any status symbol that doesn't lose value as much? E.g. what if I carry around a bar of gold?
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Give me the $15000 and I'll teach ya how to be attractive..

It's much simplier and much more effective then wearing a rolex. Plus the chicks you get will like you for more then your money.
 
nokiacasio said:
Suppose a man wore a gold watch or a gold bracelet. Would that be attractive or not?
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Are you for real? If you want to wear a gold watch, wear it. Do not worry about what women or people on a forum think about it. It is that attitude that will make people not like you, not what you are wearing.
 
Are you for real? If you want to wear a gold watch, wear it. Do not worry about what women or people on a forum think about it. It is that attitude that will make people not like you, not what you are wearing.
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So I act as if I do what I want and I don't care what others think about what I do? The most comfortable attire for me are my pajamas. I'm not sure if I should wear my pajamas in public.

Therefore, is the best thing to do to conform to what others wants but pretend that you are nonconformist?
 
Quote - goal sneak - "Are you for real? If you want to wear a gold watch, wear it. Do not worry about what women or people on a forum think about it. It is that attitude that will make people not like you, not what you are wearing."


BINGO... wear what you want and as much as you want...pierce ya face, put a thousand gold chains around your neck... if thats what you want to do...use it to express YOU. Like Goal Sneak says - it's your attitude, not what you are wearing. :)
 

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Gold is passé. Particularly those huge gold Rolex Oyster chronographs, unless you want to look like you're "into stocks", drive a 2nd hand Porsche and are hanging out for ponytails to come back in fashion.

A nice platinum/titanium TAG Heuer, Patek Phillipe or even a Raymond Weil at a stretch will do.
 
nokiacasio said:
So I act as if I do what I want and I don't care what others think about what I do? The most comfortable attire for me are my pajamas. I'm not sure if I should wear my pajamas in public.

Therefore, is the best thing to do to conform to what others wants but pretend that you are nonconformist?
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You're confusing comfort.

Comfort as in, how something feels on you vs Comfort as in, how you feel in something.

The best thing to do is wear the things that you think look best.

If you're completely clueless in a fashion sense, the best place to start would be too pick a well dressed celebrity who has a style you like and slowly adapt your wardrobe with a similar style.
 
i have a nice gold analog citizen watch that i wear for work that goes well with business attire and i've always worn a thin gold chain with a small surfboard pendant (got it 18 years ago).
having said that, i wear a polar heart rate watch on weekends.
never thought i'd like gold jewellery but if worn with the right clothes then it can look classy instead of cheap and woggy. never had an earring so they are the only pieces of jewellery that i've ever worn.
 
Women love gold.

If a bloke wears a gold lots of women will look his way. They can't help themselves.
You only have to watch a female you know stop when jewelry adds are on TV or how they always read the shiny junk mail jewelry sale brochures.

Bling I'm not so sure about.

I reckon most women could pick cheap jewelry on bloke from 20 metres on a dark night. :cool:
 

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People with class don't wear a lot of jewellery. People with a distinct lack of class often do.

The amount of times I see classless bogans who grew up out west, hardly has a dollar to his name, and adorns himself with chunky gold jewellery as if he's Joe Pesci out of Goodfellas is amazing.

Gold watches on men look ugly period.
 
bunsen burner said:
People with class don't wear a lot of jewellery. People with a distinct lack of class often do.

The amount of times I see classless bogans who grew up out west, hardly has a dollar to his name, and adorns himself with chunky gold jewellery as if he's Joe Pesci out of Goodfellas is amazing.

Gold watches on men look ugly period.
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thanks for the vote of confidence you fashion plate.
generally speaking, your posts lack class.
 
In the past I've worn a gold watch, bracelet or chain (if it was an open collar kind of thing) for more formal/dressy occassions (not all at once, as that just looks tacky), but they've sat in my drawer for a few years now without much use. I've considered selling them, as they're not really my style anymore. Not sure if they really "attract" women (shouldn't be a reason to wear them anyway), but gold accessories can compliment some outfits nicely.

Am I the only one that thinks silver (particularly those really thick silver chains) just looks cheap and tacky? Whenever I see someone wearing silver in anything but a watch, I always think "Couldn't you afford gold?".
 
wearing color coordination and jewellery with matching colors
depending on the style of jewellery, its gotta suit the persons look the way u wear and style ur hair, depending on race and all
i wear a gold chain but its thin and around my neck, a silver ring with at times a silver chain also around my neck

the age bracket helps and determines what u wear
 

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