Scandal Lachie Neale affair

[Unfazed]

Why should the media pursue Neale about this anyway?

It is a private matter.

There is a distinction between public interest, and the public being interested.

I'm interested.

 

[1970crow]

Really.

A few words on an anonymous text-based internet forum makes me as much of a campaigner as the guy who devastated and publicly humiliated the mother of his children over some dirty mormon tart (who also happened to be his best mate's wife) .

Have a rest mate.

It was Jules who made it public.

 

[baggersforflaggers]

Carey had an affair with a teammates wife that destroyed a club.. the only thing this has in common with Carey’s situation is that a male and female did something they shouldn’t have. Nothing else similar IMO.

 

[bresker]

Next time I have a legal enquiry , I won't bother engaging a solicitor . Just post on BigFooty and some random will sort me out. Pronto.

 

[GoEaglesGoSGIO]

Next time I have a legal enquiry , I won't bother engaging a solicitor . Just post on BigFooty and some random will sort me out. Pronto.

Next time my wifes best friend comes over ill be able to do the maths knowing ill have cheaper legal fees if she walks in during the middle of the no pants dance

 

[Saucery]

Manosphere just elevated Lachie to legend status. What too soon?

 

[Mr Magic]

Carey had an affair with a teammates wife that destroyed a club.. the only thing this has in common with Carey’s situation is that a male and female did something they shouldn’t have. Nothing else similar IMO.

agree

the big thing for Carey, it was his teammates wife and did they not get caught at a club function??

plus Carey was the captain. Is Neale the captain?

I assume rooting is going on the side at times as always for some in many industries, the only thing for Neale it was his wifes friend

 

[Paul Medhurst]

It was Jules who made it public.

Was it?

From memory (**** it was like a week ago) her statement that she wasn’t working through anything was in response to an article about the matter. Now how in depth that article was I don’t know, but where there’s smoke there’s fire and the fact that anything was leaking at all, it was probably in her best interest to get on the front foot. And look at everything we know how, has a single word of that come from Jules’ mouth?

 

[Paul Medhurst]

agree

the big thing for Carey, it was his teammates wife and did they not get caught at a club function??

plus Carey was the captain. Is Neale the captain?

I assume rooting is going on the side at times as always for some in many industries, the only thing for Neale it was his wifes friend

…Neale is the captain?

 

[1970crow]

Was it?

From memory (**** it was like a week ago) her statement that she wasn’t working through anything was in response to an article about the matter. Now how in depth that article was I don’t know, but where there’s smoke there’s fire and the fact that anything was leaking at all, it was probably in her best interest to get on the front foot. And look at everything we know how, has a single word of that come from Jules’ mouth?

We’ve heard nothing other than her insta posts which made it very obvious what had happened and who with. It’s unarguable that she made it public. And she’s free to do what she wants, but blaming Lachie for the public nature, Shen he’s said nothing publicly at all, is a fair stretch.

 

[Mr Magic]

…Neale is the captain?

is he??

dunno, do they shift it around? was the tall backman captain at times?

 

[Lets Roar like '44]

Can this thread please keep going? The amount of BF people on this thread trying to take the good guy is laughable. Please keep it up …you’re all so perfect.

 

[BillyElliott]

It was Jules who made it public.

It was the media which made it public about the changes to their insta accounts & the media reporting Jules and Lachie were “working through” private issues.

 

[Andyy]

Well said Andyy. My children were abducted by their mother, took me over a year to find them.
For anyone going through this, never give up. When you finally get back together it is a wonderful moment.

Am sorry to hear, but very glad you are reunited. All the best to your and your kids mate.

I have a lot of resent for my ex for many things. Cheating, financial/emotional/psychological/social abuse, all of it.

But I would never pinch the kids and run, denying then access to a parent.

Also, outcomes for children without FATHERS are SIGNIFICANTLY worse for children than outcomes for children without mothers. The evidence on this is clear. The family courts are unfortunately very slow picking up on this but they are slowly coming around.

 

[mighty_lions]

We’ve heard nothing other than her insta posts which made it very obvious what had happened and who with. It’s unarguable that she made it public. And she’s free to do what she wants, but blaming Lachie for the public nature, Shen he’s said nothing publicly at all, is a fair stretch.

thats not accurate, I would assume it was lachies management that said they were "working through it" (classic management spin) first to the Jackie Epstein article, imagine Jules seeing that thinking **** that we aren't working through anything

 

[Andyy]

People do plenty of stupid things in life, it happens.

And while I don't ever condone cheating, it's not justifiable, shouldn't happen etc, I don't personally consider that a father or mother cheating on their spouse should be put together with whether that makes the person a good or bad parent.

That there is people saying that it automatically makes Lachie a bad father is a pretty disrespectful position to take 'in my opinion'...

And that's coming from a separated father of two (in the absence of infidelity.)

Right on the money here mate.

Cheating is horrible and it hurts children too, but it doesn't mean you're unfit to parent. And kids need both parents, especially dads.

 

[DragoDelph]

Never, in all my time on BF, have I seen a thread where so many blokes are discussing Botox, women's ages or lip filler. Feel like I really need a beer suddenly.

Wait until you find out about beer…

 

[Daka]

…Neale is the captain?

Yes he is co-captain with Andrews.

 

[BillyElliott]

Right on the money here mate.

Cheating is horrible and it hurts children too, but it doesn't mean you're unfit to parent. And kids need both parents, especially dads.

Why 'especially Dads' ??

 

[Andyy]

this narrative that lachie would be punished is absurd, he can move back to Perth immediately and sit out the year if she chose to permantly relocate

why should she be "punished" to live somewhere she has no ties to

This is where the 'best interests of the children' comes in to play.

You have to put aside your significantly bruised ego and talk to your ex about where the children and parents will live and who will care for them etc.

She hasn't cut and run, all of the family court chatter is hypothetical, but to take the kids and move thousands of kilometers away from their father would be damaging to the children and the children should not be paying for Lachie's infidelity.

If she wants to do it she needs to work with him.

 

[1970crow]

It was the media which made it public about the changes to their insta accounts.

So her post about ‘not working through anything and being betrayed in the most unimaginable way’ and then posting (and then deleting) on the other chick’s insta about embarrassing herself and deleting the images wasn’t public?

The media speculated that something was going on, she draw us all a picture. But yeh, wasn’t Jules, it was all the media.

 

[Lets Roar like '44]

You guys need to get a job on CSI Miami it’s so laughable

 

[1970crow]

thats not accurate, I would assume it was lachies management that said they were "working through it" (classic management spin) first to the Jackie Epstein article, imagine Jules seeing that thinking **** that we aren't working through anything

You even say you’re assuming there then use it as bedrock fact. You don’t know where that came from at all.

 

[BillyElliott]

So her post about ‘not working through anything and being betrayed in the most imaginable way’ and then posting (and then deleting) on the other chick’s insta about embarrassing herself and deleting the images wasn’t public?

The media speculated that something was going on, she draw us all a picture. But yeh, wasn’t Jules, it was all the media.

The media were the first to make it public. That was my point.

Her insta story about being betrayed came after the media reported they were 'working through' issues.

 

[mighty_lions]

This is where the 'best interests of the children' comes in to play.

You have to put aside your significantly bruised ego and talk to your ex about where the children and parents will live and who will care for them etc.

She hasn't cut and run, all of the family court chatter is hypothetical, but to take the kids and move thousands of kilometers away from their father would be damaging to the children and the children should not be paying for Lachie's infidelity.

If she wants to do it she needs to work with him.

he could easily also move to Perth, your making it out like hes an average Joe with no money who needs to keep working his 9-5 job to survive