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what's your relationship like with your close mates' gfs? I have to say that they can be a real pain in that they'll put the Cameron Ling (the tag) onto your best mate and often you just won't hear from them for ages, their good performances are few n far between and soon enough their All-australian years of days gone by are just a memory. Just need them to shake their tag.

how do you guys go in getting along with the girls in your mate's lives?
 
yeah there's usually one who is ok. And the boys themselves seem to change their characters a bit depending on whether or not shes out with them too.
 
Got a good mate who has been tagged out of play for years. You get those rare games when his in form and unstoppable, but most of the time a tight tag is placed on him. Was a brownlow contender at one stage, still a guaranteed starter because his still very handy when he gets his hands on the ball.
 

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Anyone that knows my posting history on this board knows I hate the whip more than anyone.

However, people get older and hence maturer. You can't expect every mate to continue to get pissed for life every saturday and make a fool of himself in front of the town.

All I ask is that he still keeps in touch, and when he does, not have the girlfriend keep him away from the boys because 'he should be spending every single moment with me me me'.
 
Power King said:
Anyone that knows my posting history on this board knows I hate the whip more than anyone.
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You'll love this then.

I get along with pretty much all of them except for one.

Had a situation a few weeks ago where the rest of my mate's (shall call him X for the rest of this story) family were away for the week. This meant (amongst other things) that the family's Melbourne Victory memberships wouldn't be used for the midweek game against Wellington. I buy my membership with the family so I go with X to the games, so this time with them all away there were an extra 4 seats.

So we (me & X) thought we'd round up a couple of the guys who normally can't go to the games and have a decent night out with a casino trip after the game...not so fast.

GF decides to come because 'she wants to spend a night with him'. Keep in mind this is a soccer game, not dinner and a movie. So there goes the plans for after the game...but wait...now she's told X that 'she doesn't want anyone else coming along'.

X says OK! :eek:

I tell X to get ****ed, and then come up with the idea that I invited the others to come without X knowing, so if she was pissed she could just blame me (as you can figure out, I couldn't care less about her). Of course, X accepts that without a second hesitation.

Get to the game, myself and the two other guys are already at the ground (we got there by train), when X and GF arrive (drove in together). She then proceeded to sit between X and the rest of us, with her back turned and not paying any attention to the game. The instant the final whistle blows she literally drags him by the hand away from the rest of us with barely a word being said...bringing the total to about four for the duration of the game.

Texted X later on, and got a reply that she was annoyed, but not at X so it seemed like it had blown over.

But wait, there's more...

X's family were getting back on the Monday, so on the Sunday afternoon (a few days after the Victory game) there had been a BBQ planned at X's house. Nothing major, just about 15odd people over there to chill out. So on the Sunday morning, I text X to ask what time he wants visitors around. I get the following:

"Umm...GF doesn't want you to come around because she wants it to be quiet."

Reply:

"It's a BBQ, not a party...and are you really letting your GF telling you what to do in your own house?"

X: Yeah I guess so. Sorry dude.
Me: If this ever happens again, start running.

Thankfully he's been normal ever since, but there will come a time where I have the opportunity to embarrass and humiliate the GF...and it will be sweet.
 
my best mate's gf always hangs out with us, never really had any female friends of her own. she's pretty cool and it's just normal for her to be hanging out with us, but it is different to when it's just the boys.
 
All of my friends are married. Except for one, all of the wives hate me because I represent freedom and fun which I refuse to ever give up. So I must be repressed. Sort of like the way dictatorships oppress the masses by repressing "dangerous" truths.

The one wife that doesn't hate me is a full-on sweetheart. She phones me up occasionally and begs me to hang out with her husband. She figures it helps him blow off steam if he gets some Mooster time. She's right. They stay happily together for the most part. He screws around on her, but she doesnt' know. She doesn't screw around on him because she's ugly. Pure sweetheart though.

Any more I hang out mostly with girlfriends. My guy friends are whipped and it troubles my heart to see it. It's one of the main reasons I have facebook. That way I can keep up with their droll domesticated happenings without actually being involved in any way. I can also write obnoxious bachelor-type things on their pages. It keeps the hate alive and perhaps one day it will shake one or two of my friends out of their enslavement. But mostly it keeps the hate alive.
 
Rick18 said:
You'll love this then.

I get along with pretty much all of them except for one.

Had a situation a few weeks ago where the rest of my mate's (shall call him X for the rest of this story) family were away for the week. This meant (amongst other things) that the family's Melbourne Victory memberships wouldn't be used for the midweek game against Wellington. I buy my membership with the family so I go with X to the games, so this time with them all away there were an extra 4 seats.

So we (me & X) thought we'd round up a couple of the guys who normally can't go to the games and have a decent night out with a casino trip after the game...not so fast.

GF decides to come because 'she wants to spend a night with him'. Keep in mind this is a soccer game, not dinner and a movie. So there goes the plans for after the game...but wait...now she's told X that 'she doesn't want anyone else coming along'.

X says OK! :eek:

I tell X to get ****ed, and then come up with the idea that I invited the others to come without X knowing, so if she was pissed she could just blame me (as you can figure out, I couldn't care less about her). Of course, X accepts that without a second hesitation.

Get to the game, myself and the two other guys are already at the ground (we got there by train), when X and GF arrive (drove in together). She then proceeded to sit between X and the rest of us, with her back turned and not paying any attention to the game. The instant the final whistle blows she literally drags him by the hand away from the rest of us with barely a word being said...bringing the total to about four for the duration of the game.

Texted X later on, and got a reply that she was annoyed, but not at X so it seemed like it had blown over.

But wait, there's more...

X's family were getting back on the Monday, so on the Sunday afternoon (a few days after the Victory game) there had been a BBQ planned at X's house. Nothing major, just about 15odd people over there to chill out. So on the Sunday morning, I text X to ask what time he wants visitors around. I get the following:

"Umm...GF doesn't want you to come around because she wants it to be quiet."

Reply:

"It's a BBQ, not a party...and are you really letting your GF telling you what to do in your own house?"

X: Yeah I guess so. Sorry dude.
Me: If this ever happens again, start running.

Thankfully he's been normal ever since, but there will come a time where I have the opportunity to embarrass and humiliate the GF...and it will be sweet.
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Girlfriend obviously needs a backhander.

X obviously displaying signs of being whipped, but at least he recognises it. Most whipped blokes are a) in denial, or b) completely oblivious to it. Very sad.

Like I said, the guy is allowed to mature up, but that in no way means he should let her dictate everything that happens, especially when it's comfortably within reason (eg that soccer night).
 
I like most of my mates' girlfriends. Most of us tend to date pretty independent girls with their own closeknit little friendship groups, so they respect 'the boys' and there's always plenty of time for us to hang out when they're off doing the Sex & The City thing. I think it keeps everyone involved a heck of a lot saner.

The one thing I cannot stand is girls who call their boyfriends 'babe'. My friend's fiancee does this all the time and it drives me crazy.
 
One of my friends used to have a pretty cool GF everyone liked her but he ****ed it up and she broke up with him, he's now going out with a complete nutcase where he is constantly treated like shit but he sticks with her everyone hates her it's kinda funny how it just went to the complete opposite situation in being his actual relationship and how his mates feel about it.
 
Rick18 said:
You'll love this then.

I get along with pretty much all of them except for one.

Had a situation a few weeks ago where the rest of my mate's (shall call him X for the rest of this story) family were away for the week. This meant (amongst other things) that the family's Melbourne Victory memberships wouldn't be used for the midweek game against Wellington. I buy my membership with the family so I go with X to the games, so this time with them all away there were an extra 4 seats.

So we (me & X) thought we'd round up a couple of the guys who normally can't go to the games and have a decent night out with a casino trip after the game...not so fast.

GF decides to come because 'she wants to spend a night with him'. Keep in mind this is a soccer game, not dinner and a movie. So there goes the plans for after the game...but wait...now she's told X that 'she doesn't want anyone else coming along'.

X says OK! :eek:

I tell X to get ****ed, and then come up with the idea that I invited the others to come without X knowing, so if she was pissed she could just blame me (as you can figure out, I couldn't care less about her). Of course, X accepts that without a second hesitation.

Get to the game, myself and the two other guys are already at the ground (we got there by train), when X and GF arrive (drove in together). She then proceeded to sit between X and the rest of us, with her back turned and not paying any attention to the game. The instant the final whistle blows she literally drags him by the hand away from the rest of us with barely a word being said...bringing the total to about four for the duration of the game.

Texted X later on, and got a reply that she was annoyed, but not at X so it seemed like it had blown over.

But wait, there's more...

X's family were getting back on the Monday, so on the Sunday afternoon (a few days after the Victory game) there had been a BBQ planned at X's house. Nothing major, just about 15odd people over there to chill out. So on the Sunday morning, I text X to ask what time he wants visitors around. I get the following:

"Umm...GF doesn't want you to come around because she wants it to be quiet."

Reply:

"It's a BBQ, not a party...and are you really letting your GF telling you what to do in your own house?"

X: Yeah I guess so. Sorry dude.
Me: If this ever happens again, start running.

Thankfully he's been normal ever since, but there will come a time where I have the opportunity to embarrass and humiliate the GF...and it will be sweet.
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X has been emasculated, marginalised and has little to no self esteem left if he is letting his GF treat him like that. If he has any self respect, he needs to stand up for himself. His woman would probably respect him more more as well if he were to grow a pair and behave like a man
 

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HyperAgressiveDonk said:
X has been emasculated, marginalised and has little to no self esteem left if he is letting his GF treat him like that. If he has any self respect, he needs to stand up for himself. His woman would probably respect him more more as well if he were to grow a pair and behave like a man
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^Truth. Whilst women seem to enjoy walking all over a man because it obviously gives them power and control, deep down, females love and even more importantly desire a man that knows how to take control and tame HER.

Most men get whipped to the bone in relationships so it is more difficult than it appears to be in writing, however there is a genuinely good reason why every man wants to be an alpha male, and every female wants one inside of her.
 
Don't get along with any. They're ok when the mates are there but wouldn't go near them if they broke up.
 
I get on great with all of them.

My best mates girlfriend is acctally one of the best girls I've met.
I don't think shes ever not let him come out with the boys.\, no f****** annoying calls when were with the boys, I can hang out with just her and him, with no whipped shit going on infront of me, and I regularily have drunk yammers to her at parties.
She also helps to try and set me up with people when were out together.
 

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2 things)

A good friend has been tagged by an absolute manipulative monster, has lost his friends and respect because of her, and continue to defends her after she positions him against everyone he knows.

On the other side, my best mate has an absolute ripper of a stunning, laid back respectful girl, who makes me want to put in the full pre-season and achieve that amount of success myself.

But I CBF. Done the living with 2 kids thing when I was 19, too young, and its ruined me.
 
My mates brother (20) is basically the opposite of whipped. I remember hearing about Christmas at their place, where she rocked up at their house with a full Xbox 360 set up (2 controllers etc), and he (not bothering to buy her anything) goes inside to 'find the gift', takes one of the controllers out the box and hands it to her, unwrapped.
 
gopower said:
My rare on here ability to see two sides of the story tells me that your mate's brother is a ********. A funny ********, but still a ********. Hope she dumped him.
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Nope. She's put up with similar things before that, and afterwards too. At that level of stupidity, you could argue she deserves it.
 
I hate one so much. I literally would murder her if nobody would find out, though I'd say a few of my friends would help me in that scenario. She is ugly, annoying, stupid, incredibly paranoid and just a complete joke. She also has him whipped.

My other friends girlfriend is cool. So hot and pretty nice, also has him whipped though.
 
Stats Man said:
what's your relationship like with your close mates' gfs? I have to say that they can be a real pain in that they'll put the Cameron Ling (the tag) onto your best mate and often you just won't hear from them for ages, their good performances are few n far between and soon enough their All-australian years of days gone by are just a memory. Just need them to shake their tag.

how do you guys go in getting along with the girls in your mate's lives?
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Your mates need to harden the f*** up! ;)
 

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