Never Married

[Cuzz09]

CBF entertaining the idea until Im financially in a better possie.

If that means never getting married so be it.

Like people have said its just a big piss up really.

Rather just put a few cartons out at a bbq and tell people we did it

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[Catfish Alley]

Then do that. If you’re both ok with that there is no reason why you can’t.

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

CBF entertaining the idea until Im financially in a better possie.

If that means never getting married so be it.

Like people have said its just a big piss up really.

Rather just put a few cartons out at a bbq and tell people we did it

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That sounds perfect.

 

[Scotland]

If that makes you happy, do it. If other people don't like it then that's their problem.

If you think you'll regret having something too small then just put it off until you can afford what you want. If other people don't like it then that's their problem.

 

[mouncey2franklin]

What do you think they settle them on?

Man with house marries woman. Woman divorces man. Woman claims house of 50% thereof.

Maybe 'emotion' wouldn't be the correct term to describe the above, but 'logical' and 'fair' don't apply.

You might have misunderstood my post (which is understandable, on reflection I can see that it may have seemed ambiguous).

The courts are clearly geared towards women. It is blatant.

If a man gets married on emotion, that's great, but when push comes to shove, the courts don't care who loved who.

The courts care who is the woman, and who is the man.

 

[Scotland]

I think we are making the same point differently.

Emotion as in love means nothing in law. Nicest guy in the world is still gonna lose half his shit.

The failing in the system is that it isn't a fair fight. The laws as written don't favour women but interpretations and outcomes do.

 

[Silent Alarm]

Marriage is such a joke. I've had a root so I'm not an incel who sees it as some feminist trap, but at the same time it's such a gargantum waste of money and such a parade of ego. Also it's embarrassing. Standing up there in a suit and trying not to get too pissed?

Ride out life with em and let a child, house lock you into something serious.

And spend the 50k on going on a sick holiday and trying to get into the housing holiday.

Then again I am the smartest, most astute, coolest campaigner ever. And know everything at 25.

 

[Catfish Alley]

Spending so much that you put pressure on yourself financially is a bit stupid. Got to be some sort of balance. Totally agree you should leave a chunk for a great holiday/honeymoon.

It’s about creating an experience I guess. You’ll always remember your wedding. If you’re on your deathbed you’ll remember things like that, not thinking “I wish I put an extra $20k on my mortgage”.

 

[Gralin]

We found a place that suited us, one of the requirements for us was keeping the price per person reasonable.

If you go to the popular large places that everyone wants to go to because everyone else went there you will pay what everyone else did as well

 

[Jesse Custer]

Marriage is better than ending up old and alone.

you still can end up all alone married or not.

 

[exe ex machina]

you still can end up all alone married or not.

thats true
married...at least you can take a break from them and feel single, alone, then return.
but unmarried...you cant go off and find a temp family before returning to your alonenness.

 

[Jesse Custer]

thats true
married...at least you can take a break from them and feel single, alone, then return.
but unmarried...you cant go off and find a temp family before returning to your alonenness.

Very true. And sorry for quoting you, I noticed later you had been quoted a few times.

 

[exe ex machina]

Very true. And sorry for quoting you, I noticed later you had been quoted a few times.

its cool no need for apologies

 

[Jesse Custer]

Stop being so sad. That’s my hobby atm

 

[Billy ray]

When i need a pick me up i watch videos of turtles eating in slow mo