RobbieK
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- Aug 20, 2009
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Should the accumulated persistence and achievements of your forebears be dismissed as luck?
My grandfather was an orphan peasant in fascist Italy. He jumped on to the roof of a train and traveled north as the Americans liberated the south, getting up to Rome. There he worked in the laundry of the US military base, a black GI gave him his first pair of shoes at age 16 (they gave him blisters). He ended up joining the military and saved up enough money to get himself Australia, where he worked multiple jobs seven days a week in order to save up to bring his wife over and buy a property just outside Sydney. His daughter, my mother, was born shortly after he arrived in Australia. She didn't speak English before she arrived at primary school. Despite that challenge, and despite not having much in the way of resources or support from the family for academic achievement, she worked very hard and achieved an excellent HSC result. She went to medical school in one of the best universities in the country, got the University Medal, and now is the head of a department at one of the biggest hospitals in the city.
When I say that I am very lucky that I was born in to this family when I did, I am not dismissing the hard work, sacrifices and persistence in the face of great adversity that my immediate forebears had to endure so that I could have a childhood in which I really did not lack for anything. I am simply acknowledging that I didn't do any of that work myself, I didn't have to make the sacrifices, someone else did and by chance that means I get a much easier life full of opportunities that a couple of generations ago my family would never dreamed of.
By chance other people will not be so lucky, they will be born into a different family in a different situation and will not have the same opportunities in life as I will. I am not a better person than them, I am not more deserving than them. Like my grandfather and my mother they will need to work harder to overcome being born in to a family from a lower socio-economic background or in to a family of migrants potentially facing racial prejudice on a result of their ethnicity. Maybe the barriers they face will be such that no matter how much work they do they will never be able to get the opportunities that I had before I even had to lift a finger.
It is good for me to remember all this for a few reasons. Firstly, so I don't take credit for things I haven't earned or achieved myself, to keep me humble and honest. Secondly, so I don't use that unearned position to perpetuate (unwittingly or otherwise) prejudices or barriers that I was lucky enough not to have to encounter.