Family & Relationships What do I do when I like somebody?

[Crowaholic]

I am desperate for some advice.

There's a girl I like at my work. She's great and we get on really well. As time has gone by our conversations have moved from solely work to now more talk of outside work interests etc etc.
I feel we really have a good vibe and connection. I just feel so comfortable around her, it's amazing. I am pretty certain she likes me too. She will joke around, jab me playfully sometimes etc etc and I will also do the same. She will remember and bring up minor things I've told her in the past that most people wouldn't remember. She has come and sat with me when I'm on my morning tea break etc etc.
My issue is, what do I do? I am enjoying the relationship we have and it makes work a hell of a lot more interesting. I don't know how to or even whether I should up the ante. I would hate it to ruin what we have so I'm in a bit of a dilemma! What do you think of this situation? Please help!

 

[Van_Dyke]

Dick pic

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

jesus **** just ask her out

 

[exe ex machina]

.

 

[Jaeger]

Ask her out

 

[TheFreshBanana]

Ask her out

 

[Crowaholic]

I realise the asking out part but just don't want to rush it. Should I continue just going slowly and see where it goes that way? Keep doing the subtle playful things etc?

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

No just ask her out ffs
what's the point in dragging it out? She might meet someone else or give up thinking you're not interested

 

[Richard Cranium]

I think you're better off secretly crushing on this girl, never making a move, becoming resentful when they inevitably end up with someone else, slowly but surely ruining your friendship as your jealously becomes impossible to contain whenever you're together.

But that's just me.

 

[TheFreshBanana]

I realise the asking out part but just don't want to rush it. Should I continue just going slowly and see where it goes that way? Keep doing the subtle playful things etc?

No

 

[Freofalcon]

Pull her pig tails.

Worked for me in primary school

 

[Crowaholic]

I just don't want to be jumping the gun. The signals I'm getting suggest she likes me though.

 

[little graham]

I realise the asking out part but just don't want to rush it. Should I continue just going slowly and see where it goes that way? Keep doing the subtle playful things etc?

Be confident, thats what girls want from you. Even if you phuq it up, she'll respect the effort. But be yourself first.

Remember, when you get her in bed, you're the one in control of her body, so one must be in control at all other times to gain trust.

Good luck.

 

[LicoriceAllsorts]

Is this thread meant to be satire?

Take a ****ing hint and ask her out. There are probably millions of losers wishing to be in your situation, actually get on really well with their crush. It's not rocket science ffs

 

[LicoriceAllsorts]

I realise the asking out part but just don't want to rush it. Should I continue just going slowly and see where it goes that way? Keep doing the subtle playful things etc?

Just say, "what are you doing after work?" or sum shit and take it from there

It doesn't have to be like a romantic poem that ends with you proposing marriage to her.

Just cool, calm and collected.

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

I just don't want to be jumping the gun. The signals I'm getting suggest she likes me though.

ASK HER THE **** OUT SERIOUSLY
WHAT MORE SIGNALS DO YOU WANT
**** SAKES
ASK HER OUT AND REPORT BACK AT ONCE

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

**** this thread has made me so angry I need chocolate chip cookies

 

[LiterallyNobody]

I was in this exact same situation about a decade ago with a girl I worked at Safeway with. We would joke flirt and muck around together and I never asked her out. Approx a month later I found out she had gone out one of my other coworkers and when he took her to a restaurant she said to him "I would have preferred to just check into a hotel and you **** my brains out". He still got his dick sucked by her too.

Ask her out.

 

[Plugger35]

Give her a bouquet made out of a tv guide.

 

[little graham]

**** this thread has made me so angry I need chocolate chip cookies

Makes me sad , all full moon ive been thinking of a girl I had similar anxieties with and screwed up.

I really wish him well. He can do this.

 

[TubbsFarquhar]

Has anyone suggested that you ask her out? Because I really think you should ask her out.

 

[LiterallyNobody]

Yeah seriously ask her out dude. Blowies are awesome!

 

[LiterallyNobody]

Has anyone suggested that you ask her out? Because I really think you should ask her out.

Have you tried hitting her?

 

[LicoriceAllsorts]

Every unsure guy in these and other situations should do one thing and one thing only.....ask himself, "what would GG.exe do"?

Take her to Maccas and then **** her anal in the toilets?

 

[LiterallyNobody]

**** this thread has made me so angry I need chocolate chip cookies

Coles brand ultimate chic chip. You're welcome. Better than homemade.