Mister Carlton
Better than you.
It’s not necessarily a matter of entitlement.
“Wow she’s so hot, how could he cheat on her” is such a silly immature view.
There’s a hell of a lot more to sexual attraction than looks. Particularly with couples who’ve been together for a very long time.
I’m sure Mr and Mrs Neale aren’t attracted to each other and haven’t been for a very long time. It’s very common, particularly after children. Looks aren’t going to change that. It’s often when cheating happens - one side (almost always the bloke) has his desires and the partner doesn’t meet them.
Of course, the commitment of marriage is meant to mean that you work these things out, not just go get your rocks off elsewhere. The idea is you’re standing there, in front of others (and your god if you have one) and making that lifetime commitment.
But many people don’t actually take marriage seriously, at least not in the long term, which is why the separation and divorce rate is so high. They move into it as a social ritual, or for security, and they plan a wedding event, not a marriage.
Saddest part about these situations is the innocent party - the kids.
These things can go in waves, of course. Many more children of divorce now than in previous generations, which may lead to them taking marriage more seriously and thinking a little more deeply about it before taking the plunge.
Good luck out there, folks, and treat others with respect.
Neale injected one female. Hird 34 men.
I know which ones the better man.




