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chemical said:
Nope. No doubt will be in a couple of years though. Does your marriage suck?

I'm not married. But all the better if you marry your highschool sweetheart. Very romantic. And then the kids, pets, cars. I'm just not interested in that.

What I'm saying is that you are yet to have your heart broken, to love someone at the same time as hating them, to have an argument with your girlfriend. Negatives and positives make relationships. Glad your girlfriend is so submissive!
 
PeteLX said:
I'm not married. But all the better if you marry your highschool sweetheart. Very romantic. And then the kids, pets, cars. I'm just not interested in that.

What I'm saying is that you are yet to have your heart broken, to love someone at the same time as hating them, to have an argument with your girlfriend. Negatives and positives make relationships. Glad your girlfriend is so submissive!
would a negative be breaking up with your b1tch 3 times :(
 

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chemical said:
Im 18 and am in a serious relationship. And I mean serious - We love each other so much its not funny. A letter she wrote left me with a tear in my eye. She is so beautiful and hot. I hope this makes you feel better....
You're in too deep now, so when she dumps you, which will happen, you will probably end up killing yourself.
Oh well
 
PeteLX said:
I'm not married. But all the better if you marry your highschool sweetheart. Very romantic. And then the kids, pets, cars. I'm just not interested in that.

What I'm saying is that you are yet to have your heart broken, to love someone at the same time as hating them, to have an argument with your girlfriend. Negatives and positives make relationships. Glad your girlfriend is so submissive!
We have arguements all the time. Shes moody sometimes, I say whatever comes into my head. Who cares?

I was dead set on being single for a long time, but it just isnt as good as having someone special in your life
 
chemical said:
Nope. No doubt will be in a couple of years though.
that sounds....... interesting.

I remember when i was 18, spend 15 months of my life with a girl. Yeah it was great fun, but it came to end. We're still friends.

I don't think marriage is something you should ever even contemplate until your well into your 20's.

there is a time period of about 5 years in everyone's life where you have to go out and be yourself and be free. Most people that is the 5 years from when they hit 18 and can start (legally) going to pubs. When they hit about 23 they find a girl/boy and settle down and get married a few years later, and a few years later have kids.

For some people they get caught in relationships and that 5 year period of boozing, drugs, free sex, and complete and utter madness starts a couple of years later.

For some people that time in their life starts when they're about 16 and by 21 their over it.

For some people, who are just complete legends who love nothing more than to abuse their body, they spend their whole life playing the field.

So many people get caught in these big time relationships and don't ever get that time in their life when you have no one to answer to, no one too look good for and no one to impress except yourself. And so many of these young marriages break down because people just don't ever realise that the majority of people need this period in their life - and when they realise they just want to be free it's just too late.

Yes there are exceptions to the rule and some people get married young and stay married, but in terms of young marriages they are very much the exception not the rule.
 
chemical said:
We have arguements all the time. Shes moody sometimes, I say whatever comes into my head. Who cares?

I was dead set on being single for a long time, but it just isnt as good as having someone special in your life
Is a girl bestfriend? the same as a girlfriend?
 
Black Thunder said:
that sounds....... interesting.

I remember when i was 18, spend 15 months of my life with a girl. Yeah it was great fun, but it came to end. We're still friends.

I don't think marriage is something you should ever even contemplate until your well into your 20's.

there is a time period of about 5 years in everyone's life where you have to go out and be yourself and be free. Most people that is the 5 years from when they hit 18 and can start (legally) going to pubs. When they hit about 23 they find a girl/boy and settle down and get married a few years later, and a few years later have kids.

For some people they get caught in relationships and that 5 year period of boozing, drugs, free sex, and complete and utter madness starts a couple of years later.

For some people that time in their life starts when they're about 16 and by 21 their over it.

For some people, who are just complete legends who love nothing more than to abuse their body, they spend their whole life playing the field.

So many people get caught in these big time relationships and don't ever get that time in their life when you have no one to answer to, no one too look good for and no one to impress except yourself. And so many of these young marriages break down because people just don't ever realise that the majority of people need this period in their life - and when they realise they just want to be free it's just too late.

Yes there are exceptions to the rule and some people get married young and stay married, but in terms of young marriages they are very much the exception not the rule.
Agreed, but she isnt the person to have sex with some random person and do drugs etc. Ive done it all apart from drugs, ive smashed the living ******** out of an aboriginal...Hey thats good life experience :cool: , but im past that now. I got in too much trouble and have grown out of it (Yes, i know i am 18 but partying and getting wasted is not a priority for me anymore. Im over being a complete tool)

And i know a lot of young marriages dont work and a few years will be when we are at least 22. I want to be even more 'surer' ive got the right girl
 
chemical said:
Agreed, but she isnt the person to have sex with some random person and do drugs etc. Ive done it all apart from drugs, ive smashed the living ******** out of an aboriginal...Hey thats good life experience :cool: , but im past that now. I got in too much trouble and have grown out of it (Yes, i know i am 18 but partying and getting wasted is not a priority for me anymore. Im over being a complete tool)

And i know a lot of young marriages dont work and a few years will be when we are at least 22. I want to be even more 'surer' ive got the right girl
And what did this aboriginal do to you?
 

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chemical said:
I was dead set on being single for a long time, but it just isnt as good as having someone special in your life

Get a dog, they dont talk back.

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(And much cuter :) )
 
BomberGal said:
Not that it'd make much difference if it had been. ;)

That's right.

Although once these two little prick Aboriginal kids punched my mate for no reason whatsoever near Crown, then ran away.. :confused:

If it was one of them, I'm happy.
 
Black Thunder said:
that sounds....... interesting.

I remember when i was 18, spend 15 months of my life with a girl. Yeah it was great fun, but it came to end. We're still friends.

I don't think marriage is something you should ever even contemplate until your well into your 20's.

there is a time period of about 5 years in everyone's life where you have to go out and be yourself and be free. Most people that is the 5 years from when they hit 18 and can start (legally) going to pubs. When they hit about 23 they find a girl/boy and settle down and get married a few years later, and a few years later have kids.

For some people they get caught in relationships and that 5 year period of boozing, drugs, free sex, and complete and utter madness starts a couple of years later.

For some people that time in their life starts when they're about 16 and by 21 their over it.

For some people, who are just complete legends who love nothing more than to abuse their body, they spend their whole life playing the field.

So many people get caught in these big time relationships and don't ever get that time in their life when you have no one to answer to, no one too look good for and no one to impress except yourself. And so many of these young marriages break down because people just don't ever realise that the majority of people need this period in their life - and when they realise they just want to be free it's just too late.

Yes there are exceptions to the rule and some people get married young and stay married, but in terms of young marriages they are very much the exception not the rule.

That's pretty good advice in a lotta ways.
When I was 18 I met this chick at a nightclub, and started chatting with her, and within twenty minutes I was poking her in a park up the road.
I got to know this chick really well and ended up falling head over heals for her, and got engaged to her.
I look back on it now and think to myself :rolleyes: "You stupid c***"
She treated me quite poorly in a lotta ways, I walked into a party one night and caught her cheating on me, so I bashed the bloke she was cheating on me with and walked out.
I caught her on the dancefloor necking another guy about six months later in the club where we met, so I wrapped a pool cue over his skull, and got banned for a year.
But stupid dimwit, ****-struck 19 year-old me stayed.
Eventually she dumped for some other guy, and I was devestated for a long, long time.
If only I'd realised at the time, what a stupid fool I'd been.
She was the first chick I ever fell totally in love with, but me being the love-sick little 18-19 year-old I was, I couldn't see that I was being played.

I handled the whole thing totally wrong.
It took a night on the p*ss with my mates and serious reality check's for me to start getting on with things.

In reality I got in waaaaay too deeo, waaaaaaaay too young.
In the coming years I made sure I made up for lost time :D
 

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SOUTHERN TIGER said:
That's pretty good advice in a lotta ways.
When I was 18 I met this chick at a nightclub, and started chatting with her, and within twenty minutes I was poking her in a park up the road.
I got to know this chick really well and ended up falling head over heals for her, and got engaged to her.
I look back on it now and think to myself :rolleyes: "You stupid c***"
She treated me quite poorly in a lotta ways, I walked into a party one night and caught her cheating on me, so I bashed the bloke she was cheating on me with and walked out.
I caught her on the dancefloor necking another guy about six months later in the club where we met, so I wrapped a pool cue over his skull, and got banned for a year.
But stupid dimwit, ****-struck 19 year-old me stayed.
Eventually she dumped for some other guy, and I was devestated for a long, long time.
If only I'd realised at the time, what a stupid fool I'd been.
She was the first chick I ever fell totally in love with, but me being the love-sick little 18-19 year-old I was, I couldn't see that I was being played.

I handled the whole thing totally wrong.
It took a night on the p*ss with my mates and serious reality check's for me to start getting on with things.

In reality I got in waaaaay too deeo, waaaaaaaay too young.
In the coming years I made sure I made up for lost time :D

You sound like you may have anger issues.
:)
 
leonmagic said:
You sound like you may have anger issues.
:)

I used too mate, believe me. :)
I had bad rep for my temper for a lot of years, but I've calmed down a hell of a lot in the last few years. Still get mad now and then but nothing like I used to be. :p
 
SOUTHERN TIGER said:
I used too mate, believe me. :)
I had bad rep for my temper for a lot of years, but I've calmed down a hell of a lot in the last few years. Still get mad now and then but nothing like I used to be. :p

Didn't you ever think: "It's her fault, not his."?

I know you get heated, but really the bloke(s) did exactly what you and I would do in his situation..
 
leonmagic said:
Get a dog, they dont talk back.

charlie1.jpg


(And much cuter :) )

Leon, just a little concerned about that pic, you have the dogs rear end in the foreground & the dog has a very worried look on it's face. :eek:
 
Stakerz said:
apparently im fridget, see, thats the thing i was talking to her about :(

So your frigid, maybe because you are drinking too much & getting the "fosters flop", stop getting drunk at 15 & maybe girls mightn't dump you.
 
leonmagic said:
Didn't you ever think: "It's her fault, not his."?

I know you get heated, but really the bloke(s) did exactly what you and I would do in his situation..

I think back on it now and think it was absolutely the wrong thing to do.
I basically used to just explode, and being one that would never hit a woman, I used to hit the bloke instead.

Funnily enough, I caught up with this chick about a year ago when she came into work, and she was all nice and smily to me, I basically apologised for my temper etc back then and conducted myself a lot more maturely than I did back when I was 19. She was all apologies, I just smiled and went back to my work.
These are lessons we learn in life I guess, if I'd had the knowledge I have now when I was 18-19, I would have dumped her straight away, and poked her best friend (who I know wanted a bit from me, but I was too concerned about being Mr Loyal :confused: ) and not put myself through the problems I did.
But thats life I suppose. :)
 

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