Family & Relationships First Date Tips

[Nate7]

Nate7

Cheers for the tag, although I do get nervous anytime you do it.

To the OP, do not look around the room for your next target, try and keep her the sole focus.
Also, this crap about telling someone to "be confident" is useless advice to a person who isn't naturally.
Be yourself, but above all else be calm and try not to react to anything.
If it turns bad, hopefully you'll contribute an AFS!

 

[the_interloper]

What if I air guitar to a love song?

Make sure you go the growl afterwards, should still be good to go.

 

[Shell]

Cheers for the tag, although I do get nervous anytime you do it.

!

Oh my god, I thought I was the only one..

 

[Doss]

Don't overthink it. It's just a date.

This, more than anything.

If you overthink it, you'll likely **** it up.

 

[pekay-norwest]

Always, without fail, do number 3s before you go. Glad it was mentioned already.

Best advice I got from a mate when I was about 21 was this -

'A faint heart never f***ed a fair lady' and 'the one you knock back is the one you miss out on'. Has served me very well.

 

[TheFreshBanana]

Always, without fail, do number 3s before you go. Glad it was mentioned already.

Best advice I got from a mate when I was about 21 was this -

'A faint heart never f***ed a fair lady' and 'the one you knock back is the one you miss out on'. Has served me very well.

Do a number 2, too.

And no clue what that last paragraph is on about.

 

[Stratton_Gun]

Idk about rubbing one out before a date. If I did this, I would lose interest in her and prefer to stay home and sleep

 

[Jesse Custer]

How bout be yourself

 

[juss]

The most important thing is to make the girl laugh.

This x1000.
It's the only advice you need.

Make her laugh and she'll come back for a second date. The rest will take care of itself.

 

[TheFreshBanana]

I find it stupid when people give the advice "make her laugh".

It's not like something you can magically happen just by wishing it.

 

[treefingers]

Yeah, it's not like there's any kind of advice that is actually useful.

I figure you're either going to click or you're not, and no amount of engineering is going to change that.

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

DON'T ask if you can kiss her. Either kiss her or don't, but asking is so insipid and weird.

 

[craigos]

DON'T ask if you can kiss her. Either kiss her or don't, but asking is so insipid and weird.

This doesn't apply to sex though davo99. You must always ask.

 

[TheLoungeLizard]

When going the first kiss, use heaps of tongue.

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

This doesn't apply to sex though davo99. You must always ask.

Yah, so true.

 

[BotsMaster]

I find it stupid when people give the advice "make her laugh".

It's not like something you can magically happen just by wishing it.

A nervous laugh doesn't count imo.

 

[davo99]

Date is tonight Will post details.

 

[Flash of power]

Date is tonight Will post details.

What do you have planned?

 

[BALKAN]

Don't make eye contact
Mumble nervously and sweat a lot
Yell at the waiter
Tell deeply personal stories from your childhood and cry
Squeeze her arm really tightly when walking along the street
Tell her you parked your car in a poorly-lit alleyway and need help to get it started
Demand a second date

Good luck!

 

[TheLoungeLizard]

Date is tonight Will post details.

Remember everything I told you.

Well, my first post, that has good advice.
The rest is great.

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

Date is tonight Will post details.

Good luck. Relax, be yourself, and for ****s sake brush your teeth right before you go.

 

[TheLoungeLizard]

In all seriousness, tell her you post on an online football forum under the name Davo99.

Girls love that sort of thing.

 

[BALKAN]

Date is tonight Will post details.

I see you're from Perth. Where are you taking this fine piece of strumpet?

 

[Jesse Custer]

This x1000.
It's the only advice you need.

Make her laugh and she'll come back for a second date. The rest will take care of itself.

Not necessarily.

 

[Illinois Nazi]

There's only one "tip" you want to give her on a first date, amirite fellas?