I dig this guy BUT

[Docker_Brat]

Hrm...

Hate to say it Babycakes but it does come across as a bit stalkerish, even if you're not, this bloke doesn't know you from a bar of soap so he may misread your intent.

Although there is another possibility: he could have a self esteem issue and think 'what the hell is wrong with this girl if shes interested in me'.

Don't worry about him, just take it as a learning experience and know what to do next time. Plenty of fish in the sea, just use the right bait.

 

[lioness]

Originally posted by Docker_Brat

Although there is another possibility: he could have a self esteem issue and think 'what the hell is wrong with this girl if shes interested in me'.

That's actually a very good point, I was kinda thinking that in the first place, and maybe it was just the approach that scared him off. Who knows.

 

[babycakes]

Originally posted by Roos rule
Yeah that's true. Most of the time I am only after a shag, and if a tell them that and they keep on talking to me, I know I am getting some. lol. I'm not ashamed to admit I am a big-time player, and I'm disappointed if I don't add 60-80 girls to the total each year. I always tell them that too, so that they put in extra effort, because they know they are competing against lots of other chicks. I have my ways to make sure they perform.

This thread is being made a mockery of. Look I don't care how many women( not chicks) you pull mate . Its really not the point of the thread if thats what you do yeah good luck to ya But I have more crises ahead it appears I may be in a training day with him very soon WTF do I do on that day. As everyone thinks I'ma stalker how am I going to feel that day How embaressed will I be? I know I am not a stalker but He may think I am. geez any advice on excuses to get out of the training day.God now I'm asking for advice on excuses what next i wonder excuses on how to leave the country

 

[lioness]

Originally posted by babycakes
This thread is being made a mockery of. Look I don't care how many women( not chicks) you pull mate . Its really not the point of the thread if thats what you do yeah good luck to ya But I have more crises ahead it appears I may be in a training day with him very soon WTF do I do on that day. As everyone thinks I'ma stalker how am I going to feel that day How embaressed will I be? I know I am not a stalker but He may think I am. geez any advice on excuses to get out of the training day.God now I'm asking for advice on excuses what next i wonder excuses on how to leave the country

If you didn't want opinions and people to contribute then why start the thread?

 

[TheMase]

Originally posted by babycakes
This thread is being made a mockery of. Look I don't care how many women( not chicks) you pull mate . Its really not the point of the thread if thats what you do yeah good luck to ya But I have more crises ahead it appears I may be in a training day with him very soon WTF do I do on that day. As everyone thinks I'ma stalker how am I going to feel that day How embaressed will I be? I know I am not a stalker but He may think I am. geez any advice on excuses to get out of the training day.God now I'm asking for advice on excuses what next i wonder excuses on how to leave the country

How about you just speak to him ....
That'd be a good start

 

[babycakes]

Don't worry people its under control can't say to much but there could b a light atthe end of the tunnel. I am not counting my chickns yet but lets just say I"M EXCITED

 

[carn_the_nmfc]

Originally posted by babycakes
Don't worry people its under control can't say to much but there could b a light atthe end of the tunnel. I am not counting my chickns yet but lets just say I"M EXCITED

That's good then.

Good Luck babycakes

 

[lioness]

Originally posted by babycakes
Don't worry people its under control can't say to much but there could b a light atthe end of the tunnel. I am not counting my chickns yet but lets just say I"M EXCITED

With the same guy? Or a different one?

 

[TheMase]

Originally posted by lioness22
With the same guy? Or a different one?

"Group" Training

 

[babycakes]

Originally posted by lioness22
With the same guy? Or a different one?

Yeah same one i don't wanna say to much don't wanna put the moz on it. I'll just see what happens. But thanks for all the comments I may be back yet for more advice who knows .Just wish me luck.

 

[Docker_Brat]

Originally posted by lioness22
If you didn't want opinions and people to contribute then why start the thread?

The same applies to people who say something utterly stupid or pathetic then sulk when people tear strips off them.

 

[Katthawk]

Originally posted by Docker_Brat
The same applies to people who say something utterly stupid or pathetic then sulk when people tear strips off them.

Hmm It's a good thing then that any threads I post average two replies at best.

 

[Docker_Brat]

Originally posted by Katthawk
Hmm It's a good thing then that any threads I post average two replies at best.

Katt, I think you're too 'out there' for people to have a shot at you, they just sit there scratching their heads.

 

[Katthawk]

Originally posted by Docker_Brat
Katt, I think you're too 'out there' for people to have a shot at you, they just sit there scratching their heads.

Ah well, I don't intend to be 'normal'.

Or should I say I don't pretend.

 

[Roos rule]

Originally posted by babycakes
This thread is being made a mockery of. Look I don't care how many women( not chicks) you pull mate

I'm just giving you some insight into the male psyche. If this guy is like me, he probably wants to root you. Geez, I'd probably want to root you if I knew you as long as you were OK looking, and I spose you are. Looks are far more imporant than personality, if you just want a good shag, which is what I want (and get) nearly every day.

 

[babycakes]

I just wanna say maybe we can end this thread or something. I actually have spoken to him, quite difficult but still enjoyable and i think I can say I'm not in trouble in any way (Like being accused of being a stalker).

I wanna thank everyone for their advice even roo boy who's replys has seriously scarred me for life ) and just for the record I'm not bad looking long blonde hair, blue eyes leave the tan out though I'm not a fake bimbo or anything, I have morals and values etc etc, although they seriously deserted me when sending something to a strangers house(but thats another story as you all know.)

But oh well we all have brainfades, but I really think I'm quite creative and glad I did do it, but i wouldn't do it again I'd have enough confidence to be upfront. lesson learned.Its been a seriously bizarre trip peoples.

 

[lioness]

Originally posted by Docker_Brat
The same applies to people who say something utterly stupid or pathetic then sulk when people tear strips off them.

Oh so you've met my ex boyfriend then?