Family & Relationships Parasitical b*tches

[Miqar_Baqfhied]

Have essentially 'lost' one of my best mates to a parasite recently. Quite sad.

Said mate was a belligerant soul. Late nights, partying, playing footy, cricket. A great laugh and fun person to be around.

Said mate met this woman a couple of years ago - literally the first person he spoke to online, after an unfortunate long spell of blue balls.

After time he was condemned to hours of slavery . Said mate no longer partied, played sport or socialised.

One evening the woman announced to all she was pregnant.

Baby has now been born, and the announcment was made that Said mate and Parasite were now moving back away. When I queried Said mate on what he intends to do - his response was "I dont know what Im going to do"

RIP Said Mate. :-(

Anyone got similar stories?

 

[Bunk Moreland]

Did you attempt to slap some sense into him at any point?

 

[FootyJunkie]

www.blowmeuptom.com

 

[NSWCROW]

inb4 OP hooks up with a parasitical bish

 

[NSWCROW]

Always reminded of this whenever a mate sooks about his missus

 

[The Passenger]

I must admit I've been pretty fortunate with the girls my mates have shacked up with.

Obviously their priorities have shifted but by and large all have been reasonable sacrifices to make and they still get out and about fairly frequently.

I too have been pretty lucky with the girls that I have got close too - All have given me pretty much free reign when it comes to getting out with the boys. If anything it's probably cost me a couple of relationships over the years - If I were being honest I've not done a whole lot of compromising . At the same time I've never expected much back.

One of my better mates got married recently and although they have been together for 7 years, I think he may be in for a shock, but maybe not. She is a pretty cool chick but she has always had that vibe that once the rings go on everything will be changing very quickly. I might have misread it though - I'll come back to this thread in 2 years.

 

[JuddsABlue]

annoys me when ppl change their lifestyle because theyre 'old' or in a relationship

You're a human being, you do what you want to do regardless of age or situation. If you're mate wanted to stop doing the things he was doing then all good, but may his soul rest in peace if he stopped because his gf told him "its time you stopped doing those things"

 

[Illinois Nazi]

Have you tried hitting her?

 

[Dagless]

ITT we gauge quality of life on 'large nights, partying, playing footy, cricket'.


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[Miqar_Baqfhied]

Im pretty sure he didnt want to get married yet so to lock him in she put a pin through the franger

 

[ioppolo]

Sounds like he had no balls to begin with.

 

[exe ex machina]

Good on him. He did the right thing. Single party life is all BS not just over-rated. All his friends would be lucky if they had half the life/missus/situation he had.

 

[JuddsABlue]

Good on him. He did the right thing. Single party life is all BS not just over-rated. All his friends would be lucky if they had half the life/missus/situation he had.

Each to their own isnt it?

Not saying he isnt happier, whats important is it was his decision and he wasnt forced into it by somebody thats meant to love him

 

[Plugger35]

 

[The Passenger]

ITT we gauge quality of life on 'large nights, partying, playing footy, cricket'.

what else is there?

 

[Bosun]

Have essentially 'lost' one of my best mates to a parasite recently. Quite sad.

Said mate was a belligerant soul. Late nights, partying, playing footy, cricket. A great laugh and fun person to be around.

Said mate met this parasite a couple of years ago - literally the first person he spoke to online, after an unfortunate long spell of blue balls.

Parasite eventually convinced mate to buy a house, in which her name would go on the deed. Parasite condemned said mate to hours of slavery painting, putting together book shelves, gardening, buying hosuehold items etc. Said mate no longer partied, played sport or socialised.

One evening Parasite announced to all she was pregnant. A complete (non)suprise. Not planned apparently.....

Meanwhile over this period, Parasite engaged in heneous outpouring of self-gratitude and vanity on social media in which she devulged in openly revealing her fragile feelings, displaying cringeworthy selfies, maternity photos (yes naked ones), instagrams and the like.

Baby has now been born, and the announcment was made that Said mate and Parasite were now moving back to her home state to be in the presense of her mother. When I queried Said mate on what he intends to do interstate - his response was "I dont know what Im going to do"

RIP Said Mate. :-(

Anyone got similar stories?

Your mate was stupid with putting her name on the deed if she is not contributing to the house payments (dependant on time in relationship).

Honestly sounds like he is happy and you are pissed off. I mean what an arseh*le spending time on maintaining his house, building bookshelves and spending time in his yard.....sounds like an irresponsible w***er.

Then they had an apparent (non) surprised baby? And he has the nerve to try and do what he thinks is best for his new family rather than getting on the gas with you and your mates.

Quite simply you are as bad to him as your perceived view of this parasite, did you you actually ask if he was happy or consider this is actually what he wanted?

Did you ask "hey mate I'll bring round a sixer and give you a hand with the bookshelf, house maintenance?" Or are you just being a whiny little bitch because your mate has taken a different life path and you can't handle it.

 

[BILC]

It's the darned vaginas, they'll getcha.

 

[HBF]

Im pretty sure he didnt want to get married yet so to lock him in she put a pin through the franger

Why couldn't he have just walked away before he got bought a house with and then got her pregnant?

 

[HBF]

It's the darned vaginas, they'll getcha.

I actually want to like this more than once.

 

[Dazb86]

I only know one guy in this situation. The wife well and truly runs his life the poor sod. It all changed after marriage. She got knocked up almost instantly and then had an excuse every time she was being a bitch to him 'hormones, pregnant etc etc'. After the kid popped out it's just carried on.

On the odd chance he comes out he always looks wrecked from copping grief at work (6 days, 10 hour days) and at home.

Feel for him, but at the same time it's the life he's chosen and he probably views my lifestyle and cringes.

Most other people I know have a good amount of give and take in their relationships. As we are getting older they can't be ****ed coming out as often and that's fair enough. Most of the single guys can't be bothered either.

 

[sabre_ac]

Feel for him, but at the same time it's the life he's chosen and he probably views my lifestyle and cringes.

Most other people I know have a good amount of give and take in their relationships. As we are getting older they can't be ****** coming out as often and that's fair enough. Most of the single guys can't be bothered either.

Agreed, most guys who find themselves in these situations usually on some level embrace or need to have their lives controlled and ultimately were always more suited to isolating themselves to begin with.

For the rest of us, age certainly does weary. I found from mid twenties consistent drinking buddies started dropping of, there is certainly some appeal in having a night in with the missus to avoid the hangover and expense from a night out with mates. That said everyone needs a relationships beyond their significant other and normally with people they knew before that significant other came along.

The key is evolving and bringing in other social activities into the equation. European countries seem to have the right idea, eating out regularly with friends and family is the way to go. The advantage of course is the ability to be able to walk everywhere, Australias reliance on cars makes it even easier for those who are comfortable isolating themselves to do so.

 

[radiojake]

ITT -

OP blames a woman for the fact that his mate is pathetic -

If he didn't want that life, he wouldn't have signed up for it -

Don't go blaming the woman when your mate has total agency

 

[BEEG]

Honestly you being his good mate you should have been able to pick this up

Some blokes you can just tell first chick that gives them the time of day its all over

Been pretty lucky all my mates know the rules sometimes we are almost to loyal to our mates letting our relationships suffer

 

[BEEG]

ITT -

OP blames a woman for the fact that his mate is pathetic -

If he didn't want that life, he wouldn't have signed up for it -

Don't go blaming the woman when your mate has total agency

Yeah pretty much this he has a voice

 

[Miqar_Baqfhied]

Your mate was stupid with putting her name on the deed if she is not contributing to the house payments (dependant on time in relationship).

Honestly sounds like he is happy and you are pissed off. I mean what an arseh*le spending time on maintaining his house, building bookshelves and spending time in his yard.....sounds like an irresponsible ******.

Then they had an apparent (non) surprised baby? And he has the nerve to try and do what he thinks is best for his new family rather than getting on the gas with you and your mates.

Quite simply you are as bad to him as your perceived view of this parasite, did you you actually ask if he was happy or consider this is actually what he wanted?

Did you ask "hey mate I'll bring round a sixer and give you a hand with the bookshelf, house maintenance?" Or are you just being a whiny little bitch because your mate has taken a different life path and you can't handle it.

Missus has gone out so you got a spare sec to browse bigfooty huh? Make sure you delete your history...