Econopower
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- Aug 15, 2020
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No, no, I got your point just fine. You don't think we should be as angry or frustrated as we are, or we should temper our anger or frustration in the way that we type in what is a mostly anonymous discussion forum to match your personal arbitrary level of emotional involvement. The example of kids sport, however you intended it, serves to belittle people who are passionate about their football team. People who care. We shouldn't get so worked up, it's just a game, other teams are better than us so just enjoy the ride.
People vent on an online discussion forum after a frustrating loss. Welcome to being a sports fan in the 21st century. Riding in on your high horse and telling us how to enjoy following our football team isn't particularly endearing. All sports fandom is inherently ridiculous. We dress up in the colours of a team we've never played for featuring a group of players whom we don't know while they kick a ball around an oval. We scream, we cheer, we boo, we cry. It's ridiculous. The only thing more ridiculous than passionate sports fandom is going to a long established discussion forum full of those fans and telling people to tone it down.
This board, by any measure, has quite a high level of analysis and discussion about football. Certainly higher than anywhere else i've been online or in real life, but that comes part and parcel with the passion that leads to emotional online outbursts. You don't get one without the other, because if people didn't care, they wouldn't put the effort into studying and trying to understanding the game.
I don’t think asking people to temper their abuse of players and officials on a public forum is belittling. I’m hardly arguing for a no criticism policy. Just civility.
I may be wrong about this but I suspect that aggressive language and behaviour crowds out more measured behaviour, discouraging some types of people from participating. Think of it like a self selection or even adverse selection problem.
I agree with you that the Port board is not the worst of it, thank God. But some of the stuff in the Sack Hinkley thread, as an example, goes too far - at least in my admittedly biased opinion.
So, I ask you where do people go who love their team and want to talk about it, but don’t want to get into flame wars, go?
Once upon a time I was very closely involved in state and federal politics. And there were blogs that I was a regular commentator on. But the abusive side just became exhausting after a while.
So I’m all for caring, but there are plenty of things I’m deeply passionate about, and analyse and research rigorously, that I try to correspond about in a measured way. The idea that you can’t have one without the other doesn’t just doesn’t sit well with me.
Take this conversation. I’ve actually rather enjoyed it. We don’t agree on many things but have largely avoided ad hominem attacks and mostly tried to address each other’s points. And that is how it should be. Constructive disagreement between two people who care.





