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Originally posted by next_afl_player
As for all the guys who have put there two bob in for advice that is much appreciated guys, thanks a heap!
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Oh I wasn't giving advice, I was just pointing out your stupidity.
 
How have we gone here next_afl_player?? Have you asked her how she feels yet??
Hope it all is going well...
 
Hi Fallas,

As it is Monday my weekend was pretty busy, and i also lost my sim card so therefore i was unable to call her. She was not at school today but will be tomorrow!

Im getting nervous, because this is the only girl i have felt like this before and i just dont want to ruin things.
 

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Originally posted by next_afl_player
Hi Fallas,

As it is Monday my weekend was pretty busy, and i also lost my sim card so therefore i was unable to call her. She was not at school today but will be tomorrow!

Im getting nervous, because this is the only girl i have felt like this before and i just dont want to ruin things.
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Get out now while you still can!!!!
 
Originally posted by Fullarton Power
Get out now while you still can!!!!
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Just beacuse you stuffed up and are now bitter. Dont try and ruin young love you cynic.

Not everything ends up in the ****ter
 
Originally posted by Angry Dragon
Just beacuse you stuffed up and are now bitter. Dont try and ruin young love you cynic.

Not everything ends up in the ****ter
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Just trying to alert our young friend to teh dangers of these situations. Wait till she makes it obvious before you jump in.
 
Just beacuse you stuffed up and are now bitter. Dont try and ruin young love you cynic.
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Words... Mouth... Taken.
Well said.

next_afl_player don't listen to this Full of it Power bloke, and find your sim card for fu*k's sake!!
 
Mate what a situation life puts u in aye. This one is slightly easier than my decision but i found what i did was right and better for every1..

If i were you i would go up to her and like say oi i like ya ok just leting you know. If u are scared to do it to her face than there a fone or email or text messaging now a days so tahts always a saviour.

You only live once mate and if you dont do something soon she could be going out with a rich 20 year old with an expensive car... Just go for it .
 
Make sure she has another good looking friend for when you play swapsies like all AFL players.

Seriously, go for it - no regrets, you don't want to keep thinking what if. And even if she says no it doesn't mean the friendship is suddenly going to end.
 
Originally posted by GOALden Hawk
Make sure she has another good looking friend for when you play swapsies like all AFL players.

Seriously, go for it - no regrets, you don't want to keep thinking what if. And even if she says no it doesn't mean the friendship is suddenly going to end.
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Wrong, If i was to ask her or talk to her about it and she was to say no, it would affect our friendship because we wouldnt at each other the same as before it would makes things uncomfortable.

She hasnt been to school for todays, so im hoping she comes today because im dieing to talk to her.
 
Originally posted by LFC

next_afl_player don't listen to this Full of it Power bloke
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Son, if you want to end up an emotional basket case, listen to these fools who advise you to jump in. If you want to stay one step ahead of the game and avoid the pitfalls, make them take the risks. That's the only way you know for sure how deep you are in their psyche and if they are fair dinkum. Otherwise, they'll just dangle you on a string like a yoyo. Be warned.
 
Originally posted by Fullarton Power
Son, if you want to end up an emotional basket case, listen to these fools who advise you to jump in. If you want to stay one step ahead of the game and avoid the pitfalls, make them take the risks. That's the only way you know for sure how deep you are in their psyche and if they are fair dinkum. Otherwise, they'll just dangle you on a string like a yoyo. Be warned.
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Talking about emotional basket cases......
 

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Originally posted by Fullarton Power
Very true, unless you're extremely lucky
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Err, no dude, it's all about what goes on inside your head, and what sort of relationship you have. Luck has little to do with it.
 
Originally posted by Fullarton Power
Pity you don't adopt a more responsible attitude.
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Never had one of these bad break ups or been screwed over by a woman like you seem to think you have. I'd say that's a reasonably responsible attitude.
 
Originally posted by bunsen burner
Never had one of these bad break ups or been screwed over by a woman like you seem to think you have. I'd say that's a reasonably responsible attitude.
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I'd say that makes you extremely lucky. And encouraging a young bloke to throw caution to the wind and rush in with scant regard for the consequences to himself is hardly responsible.
 

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Originally posted by bunsen burner
Err, no dude, it's all about what goes on inside your head, and what sort of relationship you have. Luck has little to do with it.
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Wrong, it's all about outsmarting the enemy in a bame of wits. Women will use the Amber Light Syndrome on any bloke. Our objective is to make them put up a green without rushing forward. You know what potentially happens to cars who accelerate thru' amber lights.. either you get fined or smash.
 
Originally posted by next_afl_player
Hello, i was wondering if people could help me out on a personal situation?

I am currently a year12 (V.C.E Student) and i am really good friends with a girl, I've been good friends with her for like 3-4 years now. The thing is that I've liked her for all that period of time but just dont wont to spoil anything and also im affraid that i woul dget rejected as this girl is pretty damn fine. We are always flirting with each other grabbing each other but thats it, I sometimes think maybe she feels the same way with me maybe?

Your opinions!
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I think you should tell her how you feel. Famous movie's have quoted such trueful lines as "Life's full of choices" and "You make your own destiny". There is nothing worse than not acting on a feeling and telling someone how much you care for them, you will just end up thinking 'What if", believe me, I know. Therefore, I believe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel...at least if her feelings arent the same for you, hopefully your friendship means something to the both of you and you can still be great friends.
 
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Originally posted by AngelEyes
I think you should tell her how you feel. Famous movie's have quoted such trueful lines as "Life's full of choices" and "You make your own destiny". There is nothing worse than not acting on a feeling and telling someone how much you care for them, you will just end up thinking 'What if", believe me, I know. Therefore, I believe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel...at least if her feelings arent the same for you, hopefully your friendship means something to the both of you and you can still be great friends.
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If her feelings aren't the same for him, why is she acting in this manner? Precisely why he should hold back. Make her show her hand.
 
Re: Re: Re: Relationship Guidance

Originally posted by Fullarton Power
If her feelings aren't the same for him, why is she acting in this manner? Precisely why he should hold back. Make her show her hand.
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What a load of bull****, you moron. Women usually want men to make the first move, although things by now should be equal with that damned feminist movement, how many times has a woman made a first move?

Get over your bitterness. What happened to you doesn't happen to everyone and when it does, you have to look at yourself as much as the other party. Never in a relationship is one person 100% to blame. I'd love to hear her version of events you cynic.
 
Originally posted by Fullarton Power
Wrong, it's all about outsmarting the enemy in a bame of wits. Women will use the Amber Light Syndrome on any bloke. Our objective is to make them put up a green without rushing forward. You know what potentially happens to cars who accelerate thru' amber lights.. either you get fined or smash.
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Outsmarting? Enemy?

Dude, if this is how you envisage reltionships, then no wonder you're so deluded and bitter. Ever heard of being honest, not playing games, and treating your partner as an equal rather than trying to outsmart them?

You're not really the person who should be giving advice.
 
Originally posted by Fullarton Power
I'd say that makes you extremely lucky. And encouraging a young bloke to throw caution to the wind and rush in with scant regard for the consequences to himself is hardly responsible.
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What consequences? If she says no he'll be over it before long. Not everyone is like you and can't handle being rejected.

The bloke that started this thread, mate, you say you don't want your actions to ruin your friendship or whatever it was. How do you know that in six months time you'll still be friends with this girl? Don't take that for granted.

As someone has already said, you only live once. Only regret and the things you do, not the things you don't. The sun will shine in the morning. Yeah all cliches, but pretty much spot on.

What are you waiting for?
 
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