What constitutes cheating?

[The Old Dark Navy's]

Hmmm, what a dilemma ..... better make it a decaf!!

 

[mandy]

Originally posted by i_luv_westcoast
Would have been easier if I didn't log onto the net that night

I say go and have the coffee. At least you'll satisfy your curiosity. My experience has shown that nothing on the net is real anyway. It's too easy for people to talk crap and be false. But you'll never never know if you never never go!

Good luck, but I reckon chances are you'll stick with "A". She's obviously someone you're interested in, and you know she's real.

 

[i_luv_westcoast]

Yeh well I went to the footy with Girl A and had an ok time. I could never go to another game with her for a few reasons. Firstly I was to self-conscious to really lose it, ie abuse the opposition, the umpires and Josh Wooden for being the most useless player in the comp Im used to coming home from the footy with a sore throat, however that did not occur Fri night.

Secondly its pretty hard to talk to someone at the footy, only really had a chance to talk in between the breaks and after the game.

In saying all that I do still fancy her. Im going to meet up with Girl B tommorrow, so we will see how things go after that I guess.

 

[lioness]

Originally posted by Dan26
My advice is not not have a relationship with either of them, but to have casual sex with both of them. Then you are not cheating on anybody, or anyone, and you get two instead of one.

Win-win.

Interesting solution there Dan.

 

[SeinDude]

Is it more than coffee???

You can tell this by...

If he can tell girl 'A' that he was going to have coffee with a female friend he talks to on the net, then it's just coffee.

If he cant tell girl 'A' then it's more.

In my opinion, being honest is always the best policy in the long run. Either way, I hope it goes well for you.

SeinDude

 

[Sly77]

In a nutshell (errrr should I have chosen a better phrase? ), even if girl A had progressed further than the stage you're presently at with her (ie classified as your g/f), there is nothing wrong with having female friends and meeting up with girl B for coffee providing your intentions were only for coffee. Now, considering you don't even know girl B apart from a few hours of chat - I wouldnt even be worrying about things yet. Simple

 

[i_luv_westcoast]

Yeh well Girl B had to work unfortunately, so we're planning on meeting up again later in the week.

 

[Dan26]

Originally posted by lioness22


Interesting solution there Dan.

Interesting, and viable. If I were him, i'd go for it.

 

[i_luv_westcoast]

Well I did actually meet up with Girl B and her friend. We went to a nightclub last night. I'd have to say no sparks flew, but she was nice enough. Perhaps we can become friends, nothing more will come from it I don't think.

 

[topdon]

I think the girl i like is cheating on her boyfriend ....