I dig this guy BUT

[babycakes]

Hey I don't want any smutty comments on this issue

I'm single and I have digged this guy for a while but circumstances have kinda got in the way BIG TIME the thing is hes five years younger than me but my heart just leaps when I see him hes not overly gorgeous but has a nice smile and seems nice. The thing is I find it hard to try and conjure up ANY corage to talk to him or strike up a conversation I'm sure he won't with me I know I have to make the first move.

Any advice Its kinda a weird situation I can't explain much more I have been in this situation so many times actually heaps and I ALWAYS LOSE OUT. Please help me out. I find the age difference rather disturbing and I also don't know if hes gay or has a girlfriend in the opposite case. I just don't know what to do I just want to win in this situation.

 

[X_box_X]

Originally posted by babycakes
Any advice Its kinda a weird situation I can't explain much more I have been in this situation so many times actually heaps and I ALWAYS LOSE OUT.

Yeah, try and take a breath.

 

[babycakes]

Re: Re: I dig this guy BUT

Originally posted by X_box_X
Yeah, try and take a breath.

Yeah good on ya hope the bullies LOSE

 

[X_box_X]

Re: Re: Re: I dig this guy BUT

Originally posted by babycakes
Yeah good on ya hope the bullies LOSE

I'm just gagging.

Seriously, you won't know if he has a girlfriend unless you talk to him. Don't try and rush into things straight away. Get to talk to him, allowing both of you to get to know eachother better ... see where things go from there...

It's quiet bizarre to see an older lady wanting a younger man - Sorry, but I can't help you with that advice.

 

[Renegade]

better ask mummy if you can take him out of the cradle first

 

[Lensen]

He's a guy. Chances are, if you throw yourself at him, he'll jump at the chance.

 

[carn_the_nmfc]

Are you a little shy around the guy you are talking about, babycakes?

 

[evade28]

how old r u babycakes?

 

[carn_the_nmfc]

Originally posted by babycakes
Hey I don't want any smutty comments on this issue

I'm single and I have digged this guy for a while but circumstances have kinda got in the way BIG TIME the thing is hes five years younger than me but my heart just leaps when I see him hes not overly gorgeous but has a nice smile and seems nice. The thing is I find it hard to try and conjure up ANY corage to talk to him or strike up a conversation I'm sure he won't with me I know I have to make the first move.

Any advice Its kinda a weird situation I can't explain much more I have been in this situation so many times actually heaps and I ALWAYS LOSE OUT. Please help me out. I find the age difference rather disturbing and I also don't know if hes gay or has a girlfriend in the opposite case. I just don't know what to do I just want to win in this situation.

If you have his email address then email him and he will probably understand.
Take him to a private room and chat too him.
Try not to be shy in that situation. It is very hard to talk to your crush when you don't have the confidence.
Go to the hawthorn website and ask Adrian Cox. He might have some great advice for ya.

 

[sabre_ac]

Well Im not sure if I can top Suzis excellent advice but here goes......
Hes younger than you and will presume he doesnt have a chance and will never try anything.
You must make the first move.

 

[evade28]

Originally posted by sabre_ac
Well Im not sure if I can top Suzis excellent advice but here goes......

dont you go to adrian to ask for advice????!?!?!

 

[blackdiamond]

I suggest you use those 'babycakes' of yours and he will notice you!

 

[DaveW]

Get him drunk.

 

[Santos L Helper]

Maybe he doesn't like saps who ask for love advice on the internet.

 

[mantis]

Originally posted by Santos L Helper
Maybe he doesn't like saps who ask for love advice on the internet.

Tell everyone about your successful relationships santos, oops that's right, you don;t have one, you must be one fat, ugly, SOB.

 

[Santos L Helper]

Originally posted by mantis
Tell everyone about your successful relationships santos, oops that's right, you don;t have one, you must be one fat, ugly, SOB.

I guess I must be. Pity because I sure would have made a decent fifth husband for you to lose.

 

[mantis]

Originally posted by Santos L Helper
I guess I must be. Pity because I sure would have made a decent fifth husband for you to lose.

At ;least I have had 3 men who wanted to marry me, how sad are you, you haen't got one woman who wants to marry you.

 

[Santos L Helper]

Originally posted by mantis
At ;least I have had 3 men who wanted to marry me, how sad are you, you haen't got one woman who wants to marry you.

Seeing as you know nothing about my life. I will agree and let you have a thrill.

 

[Docker_Brat]

Originally posted by Santos L Helper
Seeing as you know nothing about my life. I will agree and let you have a thrill.

Mum is still waiting for you to get back to her BTW.

 

[Renegade]

Originally posted by mantis
At ;least I have had 3 men who wanted to marry me, how sad are you, you haen't got one woman who wants to marry you.

Then you've also had three who wanted to divorce you?

 

[Slax]

Originally posted by mantis
At ;least I have had 3 men who wanted to marry me, how sad are you, you haen't got one woman who wants to marry you.

Emphasis on the word wanted. That means at some stage the gave up and realised how stupid they'd been and left.

 

[sabre_ac]

Well thankyou Mantis and Santos for hijacking this thread and almost ruining it with your constant flirting.
Wether you like it or not Santos their is a wealth of experience and potential for advice on this site.
If you have none to give out of limited experience doesnt mean everyone else cant help.

 

[Santos L Helper]

Originally posted by sabre_ac
Well thankyou Mantis and Santos for hijacking this thread and almost ruining it with your constant flirting.
Wether you like it or not Santos their is a wealth of experience and potential for advice on this site.
If you have none to give out of limited experience doesnt mean everyone else cant help.

Limited experience.......hehe. Now that's a stab in the dark I could have a bit of fun with.
So tell me Sabre, in your 19 years I guess you can answer all of the problems concerned with relationships.....especially as you have NEVER known a guy to want to have a female for a friend ('they ALWAYS want something else'). You sir have a lot of growing up to do and a lot of experiences to gain.

 

[gPhonque]

Originally posted by sabre_ac
Wether you like it or not Santos their is a wealth of experience and potential for advice on this site.
If you have none to give out of limited experience doesnt mean everyone else cant help.

Maybe you should give her some advice in a few months time when she decides she needs to get an abortion.

Such valuable advice you have to give.

 

[carn_the_nmfc]

Typical of Santos to hijack this thread. I didn't expect Mantis to do the same.