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Great postThe Aboriginal culture is the oldest existent one in the world. They're probably 60,000 years old. That is insane. We think the Melbourne Football Club and the buildings on South Terrace are old. In those 60,000-odd years, these people have crafted their own culture. One that doesn't revolve around money. I always loved how little they care about 'ownership.' Get something? It's everyone's. I went to school with a fair few Aboriginals, played footy with them, and they'd swap boots every weekend because this notion of 'ownership' is so foreign. They're family and community oriented people who couldn't care less about things like that. Anglo-Australian culture could probably be a lot less senile and neurotic with a bit of that thought process.
So I don't think, in the 150 years we've pillaged their incredibly interesting and unique and innovative culture, they've learnt to adapt. The idea of a rural Aboriginal kid caring about a career, a stock portfolio, owning a pub, buying six houses, going into commentary.... the young man does not live a life like that. He's a rural man so connected to his people that he goes back every week. He clearly wants to play footy for Freo but doesn't care about the things other kids might. That's a cool way to be. He's not doing it for the money or the career; he's doing it for the fun of playing professional football.
The club is letting him do this. Good on them. I think Freo realise this and old Ross even said the government and education system don't do it – the club's letting him live his life as he wants to, to indulge in his culture, and maintain a link to his family. That's what'll keep him happy and if he trains two times a week and puts in, he'll get a game. That's already been shown. The club has no right to enforce their ideology of A Normal Life onto anyone.
The club is just annoyed at him spitting the dummy and that's fair enough.
In all honesty, I can sympathise when some people chuck it in. Sometimes you do deserve something and never get it. Sometimes you reckon you should be getting a "well done," a good mark, or to be playing as a rover when you've been chucked in the back pocket. Sometimes that dummy spitting is appropriate and fine. That's if you work as hard as anyone and deserve to be there. I don't have an issue with that, and if that makes me defeatist then I'm defeatist. But it was the way he did it that annoyed the club. And fair enough.
People are the products of their upbringing, as SA says, in this case a 60000 year culture. For those that think that Gen Y kids are lazy and should pick up their act, guess what, the problem is their parents who made them this way. For Josh, he is dealing with things that most of us can't comprehend. To say that he should just pull his finger out or lift his game, without being rude, shows a complete lack of understanding of what he, people of his culture, and anybody who doesn't conform to 'normal society' are going through. In todays society I will include the understanding of what we call mental illness.
People with eating disorders can't just start eating, as confusing as that may be.
Josh can't just start to be a Matthew Pavlich who is solely focused on being an AFL player. We all support the FFC and some find it difficult to believe that a person gifted with the ability to play for our club can't put everything else in their lives aside to be the best player they can.
Some think that they do have the mental ability to do this if they were in Josh's situation, but guess what, they probably don't have the physical ability to be in the position in the first place. We are all different. Some have mental abilities, while others physical. Some are good at maths, others aren't.
Josh needs to be looked after in a way that it seems some on here don't 'get'.
But I get that, for a long time in my life I didn't understand it either.


